Anyone getting heck from people about the number of guests on your shower invite list?
My husband and I came up with 90, but 31 of them are children, and some are even couples (it's Jack and Jill). So in reality that's about 40 families. The poeople giving us crap aren't even the people throwing the shower and paying for it. I have cousins calling me selfish and greedy for gifts, but with my DH's family, my mom's family, my dad's family and my step mom's family, the number just went up and up. We hardly even invited many friends because we didn't want to hit the 100 mark.
Now I know that chances are, many people won't be able to make it, so I don't even think the number is too crazy.
Right now I just feel like telling the complainers to shove it.