i know it is a big decision and one that is pretty personal, but for those who aren't sure or who would like to know they aren't in a minority here is my experience. we waited to find out with both of our children and my doctor was awesome and let my husband tell me both times what our babies were! the best 2 moments of my life were watching his smile and eyes light when he was able to tell me "its a girl" (the first time) and then shout with joy three times when it was a boy this last time.
definately worth the wait and anticipation! good luck on your journey to mommyhood no matter if you find out at an ultrasound or wait for the big day!
Re: why i stayed team green-from a 2 time mom
This is what we are looking forward to!
My OB agreed to let DH catch the baby in delivery (if everything goes well!) and I can't wait to see him hold up our LO & say those magic words! For me personally I didn't see how having a u/s tech say it to us at 20wks could compare! Plus you get double the anticipation waiting for 40wks vs. 20!