This may seem like a silly question but if I were to only pump the breast milk and feed the baby with a bottle is that the same effect as breastfeeding? My main concern is will the breastmilk continue to develop and stay and how often would I have to pump?
Re: Breastfeeding and pumping same??
I'm just going to "ditto" what the previous posters said. You have to pump the same frequency that you would feed. So with a newborn, that's about every two - three hours.
Evelyn (3.24.10), Graham (5.30.13) & Miles (8.28.16)
You can EP (exclusively pump), but sometimes people do have supply issues with EPing b/c the pump, any pump, will NEVER be as efficient as your baby at emptying your breast. Your baby will always be able to get more milk total and get it faster. That said, if you post asking for advice over on the BF'ing board, I'm sure you'll find some others that have done it and can speak from experience about EPing specifically. The simple answer is, yes, it absolutely can be done. Having said all that, when I was pumping while working FT, pumping was much less comfortable and a much bigger annoyance for me than just BF'ing, but that's my personal experience.
As far as benefits for you and for the baby, you are correct. You will still get the benefits of the BM by pumping. The only thing that you won't have is the closeness and the bonding that comes with BF'ing, but not everyone feels that strongly about that part of BF'ing anyway. You have to do what feels right for you and your baby, and EPing is certainly a huge advantage for your baby and for you healthwise.
Good luck!
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
The reason for this is to reduce the risk of nipple confusion if you are planning to breast and bottle feed. It sounds like she just wants to bottle feed, so there shouldn't be an issue.
It's better than formula but no, it's not the same. I would suggest speaking with a LC and/or reading. I really liked "So That's What They're For". Easy, Funny Read.
eta - Benefits are close but not exactly the same. Read the book.
Tales of the Wife
Just as PP have said, your baby will be more efficient than a pump, however lots of women EP for lots of reasons. You will definitely need a high-quality pump (I have a Medela PISA and love it!).
I would check out kellymom.com (an AWESOME reference for breastfeeding, pumping, etc). The ladies there can give you a ton of advice on EPing (there are articles galore as well as msg boards).
Good luck! Any amount of BM you can give to your LO will be wonderful