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hello? libido? are you out there?

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first off sorry if this is TMI, but I'm curious about this.  so lately, I've not been in the mood for any lovin.  mentally, I'll think...can't wait till tonight! but when night time comes, I'm very tired.  Plus I have a big belly in the way.  Plus I have this weird fear that my bbs will start leaking at any moment, which I think would NOT be attractive at all.  I'm just wondering if this is a phase or if it's stuck with me till LO gets here.....

any advice/similarities/no you're totally by myself here input would be greatly appreciated.  

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    jen-dalejen-dale member
    I haven't had much desire this entire pregnancy. When we did partake, it really wasn't all that enjoyable. I think that made it even more logical to just not do anything. I do miss it. But usually I am too tired to think about it by the time I'm home from work and finished with dinner. Other times I feel like I couldn't move enough to even get into positionEmbarrassed
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    redshoegirlredshoegirl member
    I haven't had much in the way of a libido since...oh...16 weeks or so? Maybe 18? It's such a strange feeling to me, because normally I'm a horny little thing lol. But right now I just feel SO awkward and huge and uncomfortable and exhausted and achy that I just don't want any. I wish I was one of those pregnant women who feel super sexy when they're big, but I'm not. It's just one of those things. *shrug*
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    lil_rhodylil_rhody member
    I am like you. It seems like a good idea until the time comes, and then I think I'd prefer sleep, lol. We still get it on once in a while, but usually in the mornings when I'm more well-rested.
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    redshoegirlredshoegirl member

    imagelil_rhody:
    usually in the mornings when I'm more well-rested.

    Yes This is a good tip, too! I've found that even though my libido is nonexistent, I am up for it on occasion on weekend mornings - but by bedtime, it's totally gone.

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