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Selfish much?

katiekate1974katiekate1974 member
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So, my sister is getting married In DECEMBER...I'm her MOH. She wanted to go dress shopping for BM dresses this weekend. I would have loved to go, but I was a bit tied up. You know, sick kid in the hosptial and all. So she went anyway. And chose a dress. Without me. Without my mom. With just her FSIL and FMIL. And she can't possibly figure out why either of us would be hurt by that. Really? You can't have waited ONE weekend??? I mean, i get she's excited, I really do. I'm beyond thrilled for her! But come on. ONE weekened was too much to ask?

Sorry, vent over. I'm just so...UGH. Anyway. Vent over.

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Re: Selfish much?

  • JOEBunnyJOEBunny member
    I am sorry your son is sick, but I think you need to cut your sister a break.  I hope he is home and feeling better soon.  What is he in for?
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  • katiekate1974katiekate1974 member

    imageJOEBunny:
    I am sorry your son is sick, but I think you need to cut your sister a break.  I hope he is home and feeling better soon.  What is he in for?

    probably. It would be a different story if she hadn't made a big fuss about wanting us to chose the dress...but whatever. I'll put on whatever silly dress she choses and she knows that. I do LOL at her assertation that we can "wear it again". What bride doesn't say that? And I've yet to have it be true! Hahaha

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  • MrsV092207MrsV092207

    I would probably be annoyed too, bc of the fact it's your sister and you're the MOH- you want to share in the fun of picking out a dress too! 

    That being said, I was a BM in a cousin's wedding and she just picked out the dress all by herself, emailed us a picture and said "This is what you're wearing".  Honestly, I loved it!  I would have worn anything she wanted, so that was fine with me.  And I have worn the dress countless times since the wedding.

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  • katiekate1974katiekate1974 member
    LOL Ok, I can take constructive criticism. I will accept I'm wrong :) Thanks for talking me down ladies!!
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  • Califragilistic1Califragilistic1
    I could understand her going and looking but choosing one without you guys is a little hurtful. I def think pushin it up a week wasn't an unreasonable request..Esp since the reason was bc HER NEPHEW was in the hospital
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  • CalinsBrideCalinsBride
    Yeah, that's annoying, especially because you were in the hospital. Did/will you get to be there when she chooses her wedding dress?
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