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so I am a liar....
If you have read any of my previous posts, you know that my MIL and I have some issues. Well last night, dh and I decided that we were going to tell her what had happened with us, since she didnt know. I told her that I had had a missed mc and didnt know that I had even been pregnant. She said how long was the baby in you afterwards. Well, the baby measured 18w5d and I was about 21w when I had my d&c done. She looked me straight in the face and told me that I was a liar. She told me that I would have been in such pain and dying that I am lying. I said well, I had a fever, was in immense pain, but she was also stuck to my uterus because of the cancerous tumor that I have. Then she told me that my cancer story was a lie. Oh yeah, I love getting un necessary medication and I am ripping my hair out myself so I have bald spots. WTFE, I want to be miserable and sick all the time. Not really. Just hurt me so bad, I ran upstairs crying so hard that I was hyperventilating to the point that I passed out. DH told her I dont know what but he was pissed.
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Re: so I am a liar....
Oh. My. God... I have some problems with my future MIL.. but oh man. That is so awful, I don't know what to say.
I really hope your DH put her in her place...
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Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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Mommy to DS#1 7/1/04 and DS#2 6/15/07
M/C 2/16/10 at 9wks 5 days~ D&C 2/18/10
BFP#4 5/17/11 C/P.
BFP#5 11/30/12 Surprise! DS#3 born 7/29/13
BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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Oh, how awful. I hope your dh handled it well and continues to handle his mother appropriately regarding you.
So sorry to hear your situation. GL to you.
This exactly. Holy crap. I had a MIL story, but now I feel dumb even posting it... you are a strong person not to have knocked her on her a**.... my T&P are with you and DH!!!!
(((HUGS)))