Christian Family Living

ddemarco · February 2010

I noticed that there isn't a community board for Christian Family living. I will begin by saying for our family how important it is to put the Lord first in our lives. My SS is learning to say grace and it is such a blessing to see him develop and join us in saying Amen when we pray.

What are some rituals you practice with your Christian family?

Mama Jan · February 2010

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

I wouldn't say we have a lot of "rituals" - we make Christ a part of our every day life. While out on walks, we often see things that remind me of Bible stories so I will tell the boys about those (e.g. rainbows = Noah's ark, anything he looks at = creation, etc.), we talk about what God desires as far as how we treat each other (esp. after his time-outs for hitting, disobeying). I try to focus on what a special boy God made them to be or what an amazing brain God gave them (and wondering at how they can serve God with those things) rather than focusing on You are so amazing or You are so smart. We also emphasize being quick to forgive (and why God wants that).

We do pray before meals and bedtime and DS1 has started asking to pray (so cute, after grace and meals he says "Hands, God. Mama, Daddy. Amen." -- hands = "let's hold hands"). We also read from his toddler's Bible most days, he loves doing that!

Madringal · February 2010

My DD is actually the one that reminds us to pray before we eat, and it is so cute! I love seeing her little hands folded under her chin! It is important to us that we pray as a family each night before bed, and of course we go to church as a family each Sunday. DD has gotten to the point where she can't wait to get to Sunday School (but it is probably b/c she gets a cookie at 10am!)

As a mom, the most important thing I can do for my family is pray over them each day, and I take that responsibility very seriously. I know that my mom covered me in prayers until that day she died, and that is a protection no one else can provide. It is an awesome feeling to know that the prayers I say for my child are annointed simply b/c I am her mother.

Amy720 · February 2010

We pray before meals and we say prayers at night. We read Bible stories and he has his own little Bible. We talk to him about Heaven. We go to church. He was dedicated to the Lord when he was 8 months old. I grew up going to church so I want to do the same with my son. I've gone to the same church since I was born and love it and the people so much. We've been through a lot and had so many people pray for us and support us. I want the same for Ben.

Temp174496125006552 · February 2010

Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

metisca · February 2010

It was so refreshing to see this post - thanks! I agree wholeheartedly with you that it is so important to put the Lord first, and especially to teach our children about His love and sacrifice.

We say prayers before and after eating, and also at bedtime. We pray the Lord's Prayer every morning as a family. DH and I pray for our marriage and our children every night before we go to bed.

We go to church together as a family every Sunday, and they'll begin Sunday school at age 3. They were both baptized around 3 weeks old (we're Lutheran). They'll both go to school from pre-k through 8th grade at our church's school, God willing. DH and I also went to the same school together when we were growing up!

DD1 is starting to love hearing Bible stories from a Children's Bible. She is starting to understand some of the stories and remember them. This past Christmas, she would act out the story with her nativity set.

I feel so blessed that DH and I were raised as Christians and we want our girls to grow up knowing this love and grace as well. I am so exticed to be able to share Jesus' love with them and help lead them on this path. Isn't it a blessed and remarkable job we've been given by God to lead these little ones to Him?!?!

MrsT1209 · February 2010

seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

Yes

Ellasmommy07 · February 2010

seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

Yes

Pesky · February 2010

seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

I'm not terribly religious. But I see no problem with this post or the fact that the moms want to talk with each other about it. It's pretty clear in the post title what this is about so those who don't care about it or to whom it is not applicable simply don't need to look. I don't really see this as any different than other categories of moms like CDing, Moms of 2+, etc. Not to downplay or offend those of a religious bent but if the post doesn't apply, you can skip it. It's simply a discussion of a particular way of raising a child and asking for insights from those of a like-mind and if it doesn't apply, then no need to read.

ddemarco · February 2010

I am so glad that there are other Christian Moms out there. "Let your light so shine" so others may see. I am truly thankful for all of you sharing your insights and rituals at home. I am not here on Earth to praise anyone but God.

I agree with you Pesky. We are not here to offend anybody else. We are here to simply share in how we raise our families in the Christian faith. Big Smile

JDB3358 · February 2010

We have been reading DD a toddler Bible and saying the same basic prayer before bedtime and mealtime since she was born. She is starting to memorize some of the Bible stories, and she has her prayers memorized. She also loves Christian music. The Newsboys "In the Body of the Whale" is her favorite song. She runs around the house singing "It's highly nutritious here" and then does "in the body of the whale" in a really deep voice. It's hilarious, but at the same time refreshing how she is picking up on everything at such an early age and it is becoming part of her everyday life.

KL777 · February 2010

Saying bedtime prayers and singing kid's praise songs in the house.

ddemarco · February 2010

My SS loves Veggie Tales too. I like the kiddie biblical lessons it teaches. In general I think it is important to teach children character at a young age because they take responsibility for their own actions. It seems to make parenting and teaching my students easier Big Smile

metisca · February 2010

ddemarco:
My SS loves Veggie Tales too. I like the kiddie biblical lessons it teaches. In general I think it is important to teach children character at a young age because they take responsibility for their own actions. It seems to make parenting and teaching my students easier

We love Veggie Tales too! Her favorite right now is Madame Blueberry.

Temp174496125006552 · February 2010

Pesky:
seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

I'm not terribly religious. But I see no problem with this post or the fact that the moms want to talk with each other about it. It's pretty clear in the post title what this is about so those who don't care about it or to whom it is not applicable simply don't need to look. I don't really see this as any different than other categories of moms like CDing, Moms of 2+, etc. Not to downplay or offend those of a religious bent but if the post doesn't apply, you can skip it. It's simply a discussion of a particular way of raising a child and asking for insights from those of a like-mind and if it doesn't apply, then no need to read.

Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one.

I have major issues with organized religion as a whole, but that's another story that I won't get into. I feel that religion is already discussed/thrust into so many other medias and I come here for entertainment, to talk about my son and see what other kids his age are doing. I have no interest in seeing a bunch of posts about God or religion. If I did, I would go to a site that was geared towards that. I'm sure there are a bunch of them.

No good comes when people start talking religion and/or politics as people have very strong feelings (as I do) and it's a hot button issue. Have you seen the politics board on the nest? It gets vicious. I don't want that over here.

ddemarco · February 2010

seans_grl:
Pesky:
seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

I'm not terribly religious. But I see no problem with this post or the fact that the moms want to talk with each other about it. It's pretty clear in the post title what this is about so those who don't care about it or to whom it is not applicable simply don't need to look. I don't really see this as any different than other categories of moms like CDing, Moms of 2+, etc. Not to downplay or offend those of a religious bent but if the post doesn't apply, you can skip it. It's simply a discussion of a particular way of raising a child and asking for insights from those of a like-mind and if it doesn't apply, then no need to read.

Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one.

I have major issues with organized religion as a whole, but that's another story that I won't get into. I feel that religion is already discussed/thrust into so many other medias and I come here for entertainment, to talk about my son and see what other kids his age are doing. I have no interest in seeing a bunch of posts about God or religion. If I did, I would go to a site that was geared towards that. I'm sure there are a bunch of them.

No good comes when people start talking religion and/or politics as people have very strong feelings (as I do) and it's a hot button issue. Have you seen the politics board on the nest? It gets vicious. I don't want that over here.

I am here to talk to other moms like me. I am here to share in the joys of what it is we do for our families. I don't feel like I should hide who it is I am. I am not a vicious person and those who don't agree don't have to look or post. If you have no interest in seeing I am sure there are other posts for you out there. Your issues shouldn't be imposed on others. I am here for the same reasons you are. Instead of trying to find reasons for negativity, let's celebrate the joys in raising a child and share our moments of triumph. Smile

PaigeC1981 · February 2010

We go to church regularly, pray with him before meals and at bedtime, etc. He has his own little Bible and he was dedicated to the Lord when he was 7 weeks old. We plan to talk with him a lot about Jesus as he grows up.

ddemarco · February 2010

PaigeC1981:
We go to church regularly, pray with him before meals and at bedtime, etc. He has his own little Bible and he was dedicated to the Lord when he was 7 weeks old. We plan to talk with him a lot about Jesus as he grows up.

Aww that is so precious! We go to church on Weds for bible study and Sundays. It is such a blessing to be able share this with our SS who is going to be three. For me personally it was important that he understood that we have a relationship with God Big Smile

PaigeC1981 · February 2010

ddemarco:
PaigeC1981:

We go to church regularly, pray with him before meals and at bedtime, etc. He has his own little Bible and he was dedicated to the Lord when he was 7 weeks old. We plan to talk with him a lot about Jesus as he grows up.

Aww that is so precious! We go to church on Weds for bible study and Sundays. It is such a blessing to be able share this with our SS who is going to be three. For me personally it was important that he understood that we have a relationship with God

Yeah, well DS's grandpa is the pastor of our church, so we had better be there! He LOVES going to Sunday School.

ddemarco · February 2010

metisca:
ddemarco:
My SS loves Veggie Tales too. I like the kiddie biblical lessons it teaches. In general I think it is important to teach children character at a young age because they take responsibility for their own actions. It seems to make parenting and teaching my students easier

We love Veggie Tales too! Her favorite right now is Madame Blueberry.

Did you know there is a new one coming out?

Pistachio: The Little Boy That Woodn't--DVD

Temp174496125006552 · February 2010

ddemarco:
seans_grl:
Pesky:
seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

I'm not terribly religious. But I see no problem with this post or the fact that the moms want to talk with each other about it. It's pretty clear in the post title what this is about so those who don't care about it or to whom it is not applicable simply don't need to look. I don't really see this as any different than other categories of moms like CDing, Moms of 2+, etc. Not to downplay or offend those of a religious bent but if the post doesn't apply, you can skip it. It's simply a discussion of a particular way of raising a child and asking for insights from those of a like-mind and if it doesn't apply, then no need to read.

Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one.

I have major issues with organized religion as a whole, but that's another story that I won't get into. I feel that religion is already discussed/thrust into so many other medias and I come here for entertainment, to talk about my son and see what other kids his age are doing. I have no interest in seeing a bunch of posts about God or religion. If I did, I would go to a site that was geared towards that. I'm sure there are a bunch of them.

No good comes when people start talking religion and/or politics as people have very strong feelings (as I do) and it's a hot button issue. Have you seen the politics board on the nest? It gets vicious. I don't want that over here.

I am here to talk to other moms like me. I am here to share in the joys of what it is we do for our families. I don't feel like I should hide who it is I am. I am not a vicious person and those who don't agree don't have to look or post. If you have no interest in seeing I am sure there are other posts for you out there. Your issues shouldn't be imposed on others. I am here for the same reasons you are. Instead of trying to find reasons for negativity, let's celebrate the joys in raising a child and share our moments of triumph.

So my "issues" shouldn't be imposed on you, but your religion is ok to be imposed on me? Do you not see how that's hypocritical?

I didn't say that you were a vicious person, but I know many, many people IRL who are religious and it never goes well to discuss this topic. I also don't appreciate being judged because I don't share those same beliefs. It's happened, more than once....and I think it's wrong.

Look, that's great that you have religion and it's important to you. I don't begrudge anyone for believing (or not). But as much as you value religion, I value not having it in my life. And who says I'm being negative? I'm sharing my feelings/experiences about religion. Just because they don't match yours doesn't mean I'm being negative.

amygauntt@windstream.net · February 2010

seans_grl:
ddemarco:
seans_grl:
Pesky:
seans_grl:
Mama Jan:

there probably isn't a board for Christian family living because then you need a board for every other religion and faith.... and that's a whole community forum in itself! Can you imagine how many boards we would have?!

Plus, not everyone is religious or believes in God. So, you'd also need to have Agnostic/Atheist boards, etc..

That's great that you have your faith, but I really don't think we need to bring religion to a baby message board.

I'm not terribly religious. But I see no problem with this post or the fact that the moms want to talk with each other about it. It's pretty clear in the post title what this is about so those who don't care about it or to whom it is not applicable simply don't need to look. I don't really see this as any different than other categories of moms like CDing, Moms of 2+, etc. Not to downplay or offend those of a religious bent but if the post doesn't apply, you can skip it. It's simply a discussion of a particular way of raising a child and asking for insights from those of a like-mind and if it doesn't apply, then no need to read.

Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one.

I have major issues with organized religion as a whole, but that's another story that I won't get into. I feel that religion is already discussed/thrust into so many other medias and I come here for entertainment, to talk about my son and see what other kids his age are doing. I have no interest in seeing a bunch of posts about God or religion. If I did, I would go to a site that was geared towards that. I'm sure there are a bunch of them.

No good comes when people start talking religion and/or politics as people have very strong feelings (as I do) and it's a hot button issue. Have you seen the politics board on the nest? It gets vicious. I don't want that over here.

I am here to talk to other moms like me. I am here to share in the joys of what it is we do for our families. I don't feel like I should hide who it is I am. I am not a vicious person and those who don't agree don't have to look or post. If you have no interest in seeing I am sure there are other posts for you out there. Your issues shouldn't be imposed on others. I am here for the same reasons you are. Instead of trying to find reasons for negativity, let's celebrate the joys in raising a child and share our moments of triumph.

So my "issues" shouldn't be imposed on you, but your religion is ok to be imposed on me? Do you not see how that's hypocritical?

I didn't say that you were a vicious person, but I know many, many people IRL who are religious and it never goes well to discuss this topic. I also don't appreciate being judged because I don't share those same beliefs. It's happened, more than once....and I think it's wrong.

Look, that's great that you have religion and it's important to you. I don't begrudge anyone for believing (or not). But as much as you value religion, I value not having it in my life. And who says I'm being negative? I'm sharing my feelings/experiences about religion. Just because they don't match yours doesn't mean I'm being negative.

I think the point is, there was no reason for you to comment in this post. I would NOT comment, or most likely even read, a post about atheist & the way they do things (or not). I think it's nice to see a post every now & then, and let me say this *may* be the 2nd or 3rd one I've seen in 3 years, with women having the same beliefs as me. I like to hear how they do things with their children, well cause that's what the board is about, and we just happen to incorporate Christ, which I already have gotten a few more ideas from this post. Isn't that what the board is for, suggestions, ideas, etc. It's no different than CIO or spanking, which there are many posts about, I don't agree with or do, so I move on, not get all in the middle of it on how it's wrong, and shouldn't be discussed b/c I, or a few, don't believe it's right.

OP didn't ask what you believe (or not), she's asking Christian families what they did, for maybe some more ideas.

MrsRichardson915 · February 2010

Seansgirl:

"So my "issues" shouldn't be imposed on you, but your religion is ok to be imposed on me? Do you not see how that's hypocritical?"

I'm not trying to get involved in a debate, but you are reaching here. She isn't imposing anything on you. The title of the post is very clear. You didn't have to open it. This is a public message board and people are free to post about whatever they want. The OP is posting about her values in regards to raising her child, and this is a forum for moms. I'm not saying that you are imposing your beliefs on her either, but if you are trying to say that she shouldn't be allowed to post about her faith, then you are trying to impose your lack of faith on others.

ddemarco · February 2010

Thank you to my sisters in Christ for your support. Wow! That's all I can say. I am truly blessed and I am going to continue to say I am grateful for all my blessings through Christ Jesus. I may have sparked up something heated without realizing it. There was no ill intention behind the post whatsoever. Thank you for blessing me with your stories and the things you do with you little one! any little bit I can learn from others like me will help me Smile

ddemarco · February 2010

Christian Prayers

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A Child's Prayer for Morning

Now, before I run to play,

Let me not forget to pray

To God who kept me through the night

And waked me with the morning light.

Help me, Lord, to love thee more

Than I ever loved before,

In my work and in my play

Be thou with me through the day.

Amen.

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Children's Bedtime Prayer

Now I lay me down to sleep,

I pray the Lord my soul to keep:

May God guard me through the night

And wake me with the morning light.

Amen.

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A Child's Grace

God is great and God is Good,

And we thank God for our food;

By God's hand we must be fed,

Give us Lord, our daily bread. Amen.

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Thank you for the food we eat,?

Thank you for the world so sweet,?

Thank you for the birds that sing,?

Thank you God for everything.

metisca · February 2010

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/29185369.aspx

This was posted a few weeks ago with lots of different ideas for prayers : )

jessica1080 · February 2010

This is the bedtimne prayer that I learned when I was little and I love it. For some reason I like it so much better than "Now I lay me down to sleep..."

"Father in Heaven hear my prayer, Keep me in by loving care, Be my guide in all I do, Bless all those who love me too!"

I think it covers all the bases!

MrsRichardson915 · February 2010

jessica1080:

This is the bedtimne prayer that I learned when I was little and I love it. For some reason I like it so much better than "Now I lay me down to sleep..."

"Father in Heaven hear my prayer, Keep me in by loving care, Be my guide in all I do, Bless all those who love me too!"

I think it covers all the bases!

DD has a little lamb that plays a different version of Now I Lay Me...

"Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep, The angels watch me through the night, Until I wake in morning light. Amen."

I like that better than the "If I should die..." version!

ddemarco · February 2010

Aww that is so cute. I am going to use that one. Simple and like you said it covers all bases.

trizzie · February 2010

We pray together every night. DS has a children's bible we read from, usually every day. We go to church on Sundays and MOPS twice a month. Oh, and we have a baby praise dvd that he watches. I appreciate this post so much! It is so important to me to raise DS to know Jesus and know how much He loves him!

ddemarco · February 2010

I am so excited that there are like minds who can appreciate each other

kaykee · February 2010

My husband is the Worship Pastor at our church, and both of our dads are pastors. So we have a very strong relationship with Jesus Christ. When things are getting stressful, I put worship music on for the kids and me to listen to. It gets them singing (which I love) and dancing (which gets them tired). We pray at bedtime for our family, and specific needs like sick friends. I want my kids to know that God hears them and cares about what they care about. When my daughter turns 3 she gets to go to Sunday School, which she is so excited about. And prayerfully, both my kids will be able to attend a private Christian school. We also don't watch television, just movies (which I know some people may think is extreme). It more important that my children don't get the garbage from the media pumped into them while I'm not looking. I try to constantly be watching what is influencing their little minds. God entrusted me with these treasures, and I want to make sure I do my best for Him.

Thank you for posting this. Despite the few negative comments, it is always worth standing for God rather than being worried about offending someone.

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