We are going to a baptism reception for a 9 month old on Sunday. Do you normally bring a gift? If so, does anybody have any suggestions? I am clueless about this.
I would bring a card for sure, in my opinion a gift is optional. A lot of people will probably bring something small though - Bibles, religious themed story books, rosaries (if it's a Catholic baptism), crosses, etc etc.
eta: Other things we've gotten for our boys' baptisms - a crib medal, a few religious themed picture frames, cash, a special box to put rosaries in
I agree, you should at least bring a card, and depending on the size of the party, a small gift. As for suggestions, our favorite things were a religious board book, a stuffed animal (that was an angel or something) and a plain cross for his room. We got a lot of the baptism picture frames and some other really babyish baptism plaques, and I really have no idea where to put it all and it won't really "grow" with him, so I never put any of those up.
DD rec'd clothes, toys, a Willow Tree figurine and my aunt made her a pillow out of one of my grandmother's tea towels (sounds weird but it was really sweet). So, only one religious item. Not everyone brought a gift, but I didn't care- I was just glad they came.
I would bring a card and a small, Christian related gift. I've given quite a few and Walmart (if you're on a budget) has some cute, small Christian related books. Or maye a Veggie Tales type DVD? Doesn't have to be much, but a small something is always nice.
Re: Baptism Reception Etiquette ?
I would bring a card for sure, in my opinion a gift is optional. A lot of people will probably bring something small though - Bibles, religious themed story books, rosaries (if it's a Catholic baptism), crosses, etc etc.
eta: Other things we've gotten for our boys' baptisms - a crib medal, a few religious themed picture frames, cash, a special box to put rosaries in
I don't think it is necessary or expected that you bring a gift.
However, a small religious story book, a religious medal, a cross, etc are all appropriate gifts.
When I have gone to small post-Baptism gatherings, presents are more likely. At larger parties/receptions, I haven't seen gifts being given.