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Weird Thing Happened to Me Today.....(N3TR)

My x-boyfriend from like 5 years ago sent me an email wanting me to explain to him why I broke up with him because he is having trouble with his current girlfriend and needs some insight into why he is such a bad boyfriend.

 I could probably write a book about how crappy of a guy this person was.  But WTF!? I haven't seen or talked to him since we broke up.

This is sorta out of left field.  Maybe he was thinking I would be brutally honest with him?

WW3TD?

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  • Sounds like he's fishing around for a reason to talk to you again. 

     

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  • If it were me, I'd just hit delete.  I don't think anything you say is really going to help him. 

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  • I agree with the two ladies. He's probably just looking for a reason to talk to you and I'd delete it.
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  • I wouldn't respond either.

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  • I agree. I just think it's so bizarre to send me a message like that out of the blue.
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  • imageOmega20:

    Sounds like he's fishing around for a reason to talk to you again. 

     

    This. Exactly.  I would not respond. 

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  • imageKaliChick:
    If it were me, I'd just hit delete.  I don't think anything you say is really going to help him. 

    Yeah. I agree. Does he know you are married? 

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    imageKaliChick:
    If it were me, I'd just hit delete.  I don't think anything you say is really going to help him. 

    Yeah. I agree. Does he know you are married? 

    Yea he does, isn't it crazy!?

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  • imageashleyann82:
    imageams8099:

    imageKaliChick:
    If it were me, I'd just hit delete.  I don't think anything you say is really going to help him. 

    Yeah. I agree. Does he know you are married? 

    Yea he does, isn't it crazy!?

    Just delete it! 

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  • imageashleyann82:
    imageams8099:

    imageKaliChick:
    If it were me, I'd just hit delete.  I don't think anything you say is really going to help him. 

    Yeah. I agree. Does he know you are married? 

    Yea he does, isn't it crazy!?

    Ya I gotta agree with the other Ladies. Sounds like trouble. I would just delete. 

    Definitely weird though, that would catch me off guard too. 

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  • If that had happened to me with someone I was FB friends with, I would probably e-mail him back because we still had a friendship after breaking up. But I'm weird like that and didn't have many long or "real" relationships before DH.

    But if your gut is telling you something is fishy, delete, delete, delete! :)

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  • I'd love the chance to detail to a few exes how exactly they were giant douchenozzles.  But I guess it's best to ignore the request.  :)
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  • imageMrs.Johns:
    I agree with the two ladies. He's probably just looking for a reason to talk to you and I'd delete it.

    I agree.

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  •  Indifferent I agree with Kali and Omega
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  • imagerebelina1:

    imageMrs.Johns:
    I agree with the two ladies. He's probably just looking for a reason to talk to you and I'd delete it.

    I agree.

    Yes I had that happen not too long after I got engaged, except, it was a guy I just dated ( was never a bf). He wanted to know why we never became gf/bf. I never responded.



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  • imageMrs. Mo:
    imagerebelina1:

    imageMrs.Johns:
    I agree with the two ladies. He's probably just looking for a reason to talk to you and I'd delete it.

    I agree.

    Yes I had that happen not too long after I got engaged, except, it was a guy I just dated ( was never a bf). He wanted to know why we never became gf/bf. I never responded.

    eek, that's scary!!

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