Please post updates below. Please include any upcoming big appt.?s like betas and IUI?s, ER?s or ET?s and FET's. Feel free to include any events you want some GL vibes for.
Check-ins will be on Mondays & Thursdays.
WELCOME to?
GOOD LUCK to Echloe (beta today), M&M2006 (beta today), Kiki11 (ER yesterday, hoping for a great fert report), MontyMrs (POAS this weekend)
CONGRATS to ? DMD1029, great first beta
BIG ((((Hugs)))) to?. Kissyfacekate (still in hospital)
QOTD: Please PM me or post some ??s you would like to ask the group. (I?m getting desperate)
What is the strangest/rudest question/comment someone has said to you about your IF?
Members:
1RisingSun?on a break
4510Heather- starting BCP for IVF#1 after AF arrive
AuburnBride06 ? starting cycle#7, pursuing adoption
BEANCOUNTR76? FET
beth&anth
bmbeck6614 (Manda)?IVF #2 BFFN, On a Break
BBLindy?
Bridetobein05 ? BFN
Catery18 ? on break trying to get healthy before next cycle
cmwbobo (Colleen)-onto IVF #4, started stims
DMD1029 ? BFP!
Echloe ?beta today, IVF#2
flutterby918 ?
Fthtrstnpxiedst (Brandi)?on on break after m/c
Harley12 ? FET in February
hopkintonbride- IVF#1 in process
Imanurse03 ? IVF#2
jackiemac824 ? on a break
jennylryan
jenyodi ? 2ww IVF#2
juliannat- matched with donor (DE)
justsayjo?On a break
kammy
katieranck2202 (Katie) ? scheduling Lap
ked1068 (Kristen) ?embryo adoption
kellymsb
Kiki11- ER for IVF#4 (yesterday)
Kimmilou?
KissyFaceKate ? in hospital
Koyn ? trying with acu and herbs
Liturgicalgirl (Kathleen)?
lmu2005 (Leslie)?cycling unmedicated
Lovemymonkey (Rose)? paper pregnant J
Luvie13 ? IVF #1, on BCP
Merrymarissa ? on lupron for IVF#1
mjm579 ?
m&m2006?beta today/tomorrow IVF#7
miamicubajam ?
militarywife2b? waiting for test results, looking into DE
Morgan2004--
MontyMrs ? Beta Monday IVF#3
MrsAMR ? IVF
Mrs.CMX ? consulting with new RE?s
Mrsmiller12012007--
Newsbaby ?
roxydaisy (Tricia)? IVF #1, c/p
so1966?TTC unmedicated, looking into adoption
Stace26 (Stacey)?IVF #2 on stims
sun,moon&stars ? IVF#2
svp1537 ? started bcp for IVF#4
Tarahville (Tarah) ? on a break
theworms--- on BCP for IVF 1.5
BFPs:
PeachyKate (Kate) ? BFP J
smeyer (Shannon) ? Twins J
kfbny
OrangeSmoke
DHelenL9
BRSaugust20 (Beth)
smilee- BFP w/FET#2
LNLE ? KU w/ Triplets J
Superned
*NestingAway*
vandalay
CBL
igh0318 (Kim)
Kimberic (Kim) ? KU w/ Twins
Ke11y
Tryingtogetpregnant (Jenny)
PreheatetOven - KU w/ twins
firemansflame
KoCoLoCo
kristinamh6 (Kristy)
cjsbdl (Charla)
MonkeysGirl05 (Sam)
t.bird (Trina)
duke'sgirl (Rebekah)
Mrs. Babbsy
Littlemac4
Finallyreilly
Mybobble
Leslie75
CardsfanSM(Stacey)
abcteach
LBR_NJ
Epphd
Meechrobi
krissyh21
Cndalessandro (Cassie)
JamaicaMon (Ashley)
Honeygram (Michelle)
If you are thinking about asking to join this group?please read:
This is an Advanced TTTC group those who have been trying 3+ years and/or have multiple failed /IVFs, etc. I just ask that everyone please use good judgment when asking to join...in other words, if you are still in the IUI stage or have been on this journey less than two years, this is probably not the group for you.
There is no doubt that this whole TTTC process is painful, but I also do believe that there is a very special kind of support that this specific group can offer to each other, and it is intended as a "safe haven" for those of us who are in that bottom 1% of the bottom 1%.
Thank you!
Re: Advanced TTTC check-in
just to update. i poas this morning and got a faint faint second line. i went to quest for an early beta, but won't have my results until tomorrow.
as for the question of the day...someone who knew that we had gone through at least 4 ivf cycles told me that i should invest in a fertility monitor, and then i'd get pg. as if!
Yay M&M I am so thrilled for you!!! Sending you tons of high beta dust.
Sending lots of luck to Echloe, Kiki, and MontyMrs. Kate - hope you get well soon. So scary!
Congrats to DMD!!!!Hugs to those that need them!
Hello Ladies,
Good Luck to Echloe and M & M today for their betas.
Still on a break - may be a FET in August. Missing my baby today - I would of been 18 weeks today.
The most horrible thing people have said to me is that I can borrow their husbands because my husband has low sperm count. I have heard this several times.
Update: Hysteroscopy was last week. Nothing was found! It was totally easy and painless. I didn't even have to take Tylenol. I see the RE next Thursday so hopefully we get the show on the road! As for now, I'm stuck at home with Bronchitis.
IVF #1-4=BFN IVF #5=BFP! U/S on 5/3 revealed TWINS!
m&m2006 - Hoping your results are accurate. Best of luck.
After a long delay due to work schedules, DH is scheduled for SA and I'm going for SHG finally. Hoping all is good to go with results, so come April-May we are on for IVF#1.
So excited and anxious. This is our last result. Really appreciate any prayers or support that all plays out on time. Tired of delaying our future due to work obligations.
Update: Beta #2 was drawn this morning. I'll post the results as soon as I know them.
QOTD: "Sorry this cycle didn't work for you, but now maybe we can get pregnant together!" - said by a friend who at that point was planning to start trying in 6 months. Yeah, if I didn't love her so much I would have throat punched her!
IUI #1: December 2008 - BFN
IVF #1: Microdose Lupron - July 2009; only got 1 egg; BFN
IVF #2: Natural IVF - Sept 2009; BFP!; D&C Nov. 2009
IVF #3: Natural IVF - ER: Feb 4, 2010 - 1 "M2" egg retrieved; ET: Feb 9; Beta#1 (19dpo): 2567; Beta #2: 6933; BFP w/ singleton w/strong hrtbt! DS born October 2010
TTC#2
IVF #4: Natural IVF - ER: Nov. 20, 2011; ET: Nov. 25, 2011; BFP! Beta#1 (19dpo): 1918; Saw hrtbt on 12/28/11!
Yay M&M I am so thrilled for you!!! .
Sending lots of luck to Echloe, Kiki, and MontyMrs.
Kate - hope you get well soon. Congrats to DMD and M&M!!!!
Hugs to those that need them!
QOTD: " I don't see why you just don't adopt. That's the way you get pegnant. Just watch. It may take ten years but it will happen...."
Really....I will be 43 then.....
Good Luck M&M!! I hope this is it for you!!! Lots of thoughts & prayers being sent to Echloe, Kiki and Monty!!!
Update: I started follistim Tuesday night, 175iu. Go back for a follie check on Monday. Maybe this will be our BFsP????
Adoption front: our first home study visit is March 5! We are excited and nervous.
QOTD: Hmmmm....so many, hard to choose just one. Probably when an ex-friend said that losing the babies and our IF is not the end of the world and it doesn't give me the right to be a b!tch. Yea. That's why she is an ex friend.
Well, I had an interesting conversation with my doc. While he wants to do a Lap and another HSG, he also wants to do a Ovarian Wedge Resection and we (my DH) are having doubts about the necessity about it. My surgery isn't scheduled until the end of May, so we have at least 2 more cycles before that happens, but still, do I really need it?
qotd: I used to always get that I was "so young" and that I had plenty of time, but once I tell them that it has been over 4 years, my age doesn't seem to matter. Age is only relative in the eyes of the beholder. I normally just smile and nod to any stupid comments I get.
*PCOS bio* *Cold Hands, Warm Heart*
Sorry I haven't posted in a bit. We are on a break right now, trying on our own. I need to find a new doc and for some reason I am overwhelmed with the thought of even looking right now.
QOTD: Hmmmm, probably a recent one from my gma. She has trouble filtering what should and should not be said. She does not know everything that we are going through, but she does know that I ended up in the hospital back in Oct. My friend and I were out to lunch with her and my gpa and we were talking about my friend's baby. She says, well Flutterby can't have kids. I looked at her with my mouth hanging open. And then she goes onto to say that I need to stop trying because I don't need to worry her and my mom like that again. And then my gpa says, well, they can always adopt.
It's a generational thing partly I am sure, but it hurt.
GL to all our vets with betas coming up. I hope there is a HUGE exodus. GL to Kiki with her fert report!!!
TTC Since Dec 2006
*IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
*IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
*FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
*Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
*Surprise BFP June 2010*
*Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
Thoughts from an Overwrought Mind
SAIFW