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Allison isn't the real drama queen....

...I am.  The reason I missed the drama today was because  I had to go pick my 14 yo son up from school. Two weeks ago He poked holes in a bus eat with a pencil and we had to pay for it to be repaired. Yesterday, he wrote on the carpet in his school library with a red ( THANK GOD NOT PERMANENT) marker.  When asked why: "I don't know."  He has been suspended for the rest of the week.   He also has developed the habit of not doing his work at school so despite being gifted, he fails at least one class a quarter.  We have already taken away all privledges and my DH is threatening military school instead of the local HS next year.

I feel like a failure as a parent.

 Oh, and my Youngest DS lost his "coin wallet" with  his collector's coins in it while we were shopping today.  Value $100+.  He threw a major fit and some how the loss became either my fault or God's. Now the 4 yo DD is whining because I won't let her spend time with the 14 yo  (who is pretty much grounded for life).  I ca't wait for the 15 yo DD and my DH to get home to see what they dump on me.

And MF  has set up residence so I feel like crap physically, too.  Knowing my luck, I am KTFU and all this stress (plus the diet coke and candy I keep shoveling down) is  either slowly killing it or causing it major trauma.

dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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Re: Allison isn't the real drama queen....

  • Hugs hon. I'm sorry you are having such a rough day.
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  • I am sorry you are having a rough day! Can you add a little rum to your Diet Coke?? Or wrap up in a blanket and hide?? I hate how when it rains it pours. I hope your evening gets better!
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  • Oh my, that is a rough day indeed!  ((hugs))
  • Thanks ladies!
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  • Wow!  14 is tough, I use to teach 7th & 8th grade, some of the stuff they did was mind boggeling.  I'm sorry your day is so complicated.
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  • I hope your day gets better....

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  • That is a tough day (((hugs))) and I hope your DD and DH come home with either nothing bad or something awesome (hopefully this one!).
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  • ((hugs))  We all have those days.  You are not failing.  You are a wonderful mom and one day they are going to totally appreciate you
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  • I'm so sorry you're having a crappy day. ((Hugs))
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    Wow!  14 is tough, I use to teach 7th & 8th grade, some of the stuff they did was mind boggeling.  I'm sorry your day is so complicated.

    My sister taught 7th and 8th for about 27 years and loved it.  I really wish I could just skip those years with my kids. My son has an October birthday so he is just in 8th grade.  We had rough times last year with his sister but nothing compared to this.  High school seems to be a turning point and things got better after  DD  started  this year.  I'm not sure DS is going to make it to HS though!

    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • I'm sorry. I hope tomorrow is better ((hugs))

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  • yowsers...  Sorry your day has been so rotten.  [[hugs]]
  • I am so sorry.  I hope things are better tonight!  Big hugs.
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  • I'm sorry it's been a rough time for you.  I hope the rest of your family comes home with no bad news.  Have your husband order pizza and take the night off!

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  • OMG!  I am sorry you are having such a horrible day.  {{hugs}}
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  • I am sure it will get better and you certainly are not a failure as a parent.
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  • What a day! :-( Big (hugs)
  • That is a rough day.  ((hugs))
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  • Sending hugs, sorry you are having a rough day.

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