...I don't know how anyone can do it!
I never realized how much you bond with a baby during pregnancy until I experienced it myself. For the first 20 weeks, I had no pregnancy symptoms (aside from the occasional fatigue), which made it pretty hard to acknowledge the presence of a tiny life in my belly. But now that I know she's a girl and I can feel her moving around, kicking, responding to my and DH's voice... I just can't imagine carrying this baby around for 3 more months and then giving her away.
I respect and admire those who are able to go through with giving up a child for adoption, and I think it's a great thing when it's in the baby's best interest. It takes a very mature person, regardless of their age, to make such a life changing decision. Only now do I realize how incredibly difficult that decision really is. This pregnancy has really changed my views on a LOT of controversial topics, that's for sure!