Success after IF
Seriously first tri?
They are yatching on a lady who has a 2-3 month old who is pg again (not me)
WTF cares? Worry about yourself. If you think it is too soon, don't have sex, or put a helmet on that soldier. To each their own, and I even would go so far as to say I would have been jealous if I were not in a similar sit.
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Re: Seriously first tri?
I said it there, but I love you.
They all have their panties in a wad today it seems.
HILARIOUS!
For reals.
I admit though - whenever I see a BFP post on 0-3 I mentally do the math to find out if the person did the deed before 6 weeks. While some (a veeerrrry few) actually seek medical clearance to have sex before the 6 week mark, most don't and generally speaking it is contra-indicated to do so. So yep, particularly if I don't know the person, I judge a little. I don't know if I would call someone out, but in my mind I give a side eye.
Is some of that due to jealousy? HELLZ ya! Is some of that just due to a general sense of "did you seriously not think of the consequences?" Yep, that too.
Firsttogo - your case is unique in the sense that I am sure you did not think that you would have a surprise BFP given prior fertility issues. But for someone who has achieved pregnancy, having unprotected sex can reasonably be expected to lead to pregnancy. So the "oh my! 2 under 1, how can this BE?" reaction rings hollow to me. That said, I actually really like MrsMosely and I wish her well. She never claimed to be surprised or confused, unlike some other posters on 0-3 that I've seen in the past.
I am a runner, knitter, scientist, DE-IVF veteran, and stage III colon cancer survivor.
FWIW she's getting pretty berated with cruel comments - like "you're just jealous because you'll never get pregnant again." Talk about negativity and preconceived notions. Yikes.
ETA - the other one was (essentially) "since you're infertile and pregnant you should just be grateful and happy and never say a snarky or negative word again."
I am a runner, knitter, scientist, DE-IVF veteran, and stage III colon cancer survivor.