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Back from genetics counselor apt...

babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
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And learned NOTHING!

We got in, sat down, and were told all our tests came back normal... that's it.

 This was our second round with genetic counselors. We'd already done the family histories, medical problems, medications, etc... the apt. was just to go over our test results and determine a next course of action. But with nothing popping up on the tests (and they did an ASSLOAD of tests) it was basically, "Tests came back clean. Just keep trying."

Sigh.

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Re: Back from genetics counselor apt...

  • SonadoraSonadora member

    Sorry :(

    I always wish they would find something that is an easy fix, but at the same time don't want anything to be wrong with anyone going for these tests.

    Also, bad luck just sucks to get as an answer.

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  • str8otastr8ota member
    Ugh I'm sorry.  On a good note at least you know there is not something that is seriously wrong that cannot be fixed.
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  • louisianamamalouisianamama

    I'm sorry. Don't you wish there were just some straight answers? It seems like medical science has evolved so much, but it seems like there is still so much "unexplained" about the babymaking process...

    I'm wishing you good luck and am so sorry you didn't get any answers :( 

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member

    I am sorry that you didn't get any real answers.  I hope that your bad luck ends!!!!

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  • cintimcintim
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    Sorry :(

    I always wish they would find something that is an easy fix, but at the same time don't want anything to be wrong with anyone going for these tests.

    Also, bad luck just sucks to get as an answer.

    That's what I was thinking. Sorry you didn't get any answers.

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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest

    I don't know why I'm so cranky. I should be thrilled to find there's nothing wrong with us. I guess I just want to know WHY it I lost two babies and HOW to fix it to ensure it won't happen again. But when you're told they're just 'flukes' well, who's to say another fluke won't happen again?

    Plus driving through rush hour, taking hours off work and then just getting an  "Everything normal." report that I could have heard on the phone... well, I'm in a bad mood.

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I am glad they came back with nothing, but I know...sometimes, you just want answers, even if the answers mean something is wrong.

    Big hugs, hon.

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  • madladybridemadladybride member
    That sucks! Keep trying and hope for better luck next time. That's basically what we were told.
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    I'm glad that there's nothing wrong-but how frustrating.  I'm sorry.  It just feels like after rounds of bad luck you should get a free pass.
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  • skroopsskroops

    I totally understand how you feel.  I have been going through all the RPL and genetic testing too, and have been also feeling frustrated that I haven't really gotten any answers.  I completely agree with this:

    imagebabygirlpriest:

    I don't know why I'm so cranky. I should be thrilled to find there's nothing wrong with us. I guess I just want to know WHY it I lost two babies and HOW to fix it to ensure it won't happen again. But when you're told they're just 'flukes' well, who's to say another fluke won't happen again?

    Lots of ((hugs)) to you. 

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