2nd Trimester

What is going on with these dreams!

I have already had my fair share of weird pregnancy dreams. Some have even made me wake up crying! Although, the really bad ones (where bad things are happening to me) have stopped, thank god.

Although... I keep having these dreams where I am with other men. Two men in particular keep showing up. Both are ex's.

WHAT DO THESE MEAN???? Let me just put it out there that I am in a very loving and happy marriage with my husband and also, I have not even seen or spoke to these two men in a very long time!

agh... I don't know if I am looking for reassurance, or just a place to vent....

all I know is, these better stop when LO comes! 

Re: What is going on with these dreams!

  • I'm right there with you girl.

    I have no idea what they mean but i like you have had my share of ex boyfriend dreams, among other weird ones.

    Very strange.

    Definitely would love to know the meaning.

    I too am very much in love and don't think about these guys in the daylight.

    Maybe its because we're going through a big life change and the mind feels comfort in trying to hold onto the past in some way?

    I have no idea.

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  • You are not alone.  Last night, I had a terrible dream about my husband and another woman, actually a friend that I work with.  He was with both of us, and we were spost to go on vacation, but he told me that he didn't want to go on vacation with me because I wasn't fun (because I was pregnant) and he was going to take her and her child only.  It really broke my heart but was so vivid. 

    Then I had a dream that I met the owner of my company at a parade and he was talking to me at the cake table.  Super weird.

    Married 2007
    DS - 5/2010
    DD - 6-2013
    TTC #3 - Cycle #9

  • I think it's just the hormones.  I had these dreams with DS.  Although with DS I had "GREAT" dreams where only good things happened... this time I'm dreaming that my MIL has kidnapped my son and that my 4 year old neice died.  It's so strange.  All I want to do is sleep yet I seem to have these dreams the majority of the time.

    My cousin is a psychologist and told me that I can control my dreams by thinking about happy things before I fall asleep.  So, 2 nights ago I was thinking about the trip my DH and I took recently to the Bahamas and I had super fantastic dreams... of us 'doing it' on the secluded beach.  LOL. :)

    GL

  • imageAvidVertigo:

    You are not alone.  Last night, I had a terrible dream about my husband and another woman, actually a friend that I work with.  He was with both of us, and we were spost to go on vacation, but he told me that he didn't want to go on vacation with me because I wasn't fun (because I was pregnant) and he was going to take her and her child only.  It really broke my heart but was so vivid. 

    Then I had a dream that I met the owner of my company at a parade and he was talking to me at the cake table.  Super weird.

    my cousin-in-law had dreams about her husband cheating on her too! she woke up screaming and yelling at him. he had no idea what to do, haha

  • imageMeleahMae:

    I think it's just the hormones.  I had these dreams with DS.  Although with DS I had "GREAT" dreams where only good things happened... this time I'm dreaming that my MIL has kidnapped my son and that my 4 year old neice died.  It's so strange.  All I want to do is sleep yet I seem to have these dreams the majority of the time.

    My cousin is a psychologist and told me that I can control my dreams by thinking about happy things before I fall asleep.  So, 2 nights ago I was thinking about the trip my DH and I took recently to the Bahamas and I had super fantastic dreams... of us 'doing it' on the secluded beach.  LOL. :)

    GL

    haha, i am totally going to try this!

  • imageAndreaRose*:.:
    imageAvidVertigo:

    You are not alone.  Last night, I had a terrible dream about my husband and another woman, actually a friend that I work with.  He was with both of us, and we were spost to go on vacation, but he told me that he didn't want to go on vacation with me because I wasn't fun (because I was pregnant) and he was going to take her and her child only.  It really broke my heart but was so vivid. 

    Then I had a dream that I met the owner of my company at a parade and he was talking to me at the cake table.  Super weird.

    my cousin-in-law had dreams about her husband cheating on her too! she woke up screaming and yelling at him. he had no idea what to do, haha

     I rolled over this morning and cuddled up REALLY close to him and was VERY lovey.  I'm sure he was like "what is going on"  LOL

    Married 2007
    DS - 5/2010
    DD - 6-2013
    TTC #3 - Cycle #9

  • imageAvidVertigo:
    imageAndreaRose*:.:
    imageAvidVertigo:

    You are not alone.  Last night, I had a terrible dream about my husband and another woman, actually a friend that I work with.  He was with both of us, and we were spost to go on vacation, but he told me that he didn't want to go on vacation with me because I wasn't fun (because I was pregnant) and he was going to take her and her child only.  It really broke my heart but was so vivid. 

    Then I had a dream that I met the owner of my company at a parade and he was talking to me at the cake table.  Super weird.

    my cousin-in-law had dreams about her husband cheating on her too! she woke up screaming and yelling at him. he had no idea what to do, haha

     I rolled over this morning and cuddled up REALLY close to him and was VERY lovey.  I'm sure he was like "what is going on"  LOL

    DH would love that...haha, unfortunatly, being with other men in my dreams doesn't exactly get me in the mood.

    i did spend a good 10 minutes making out with him this morning thoughStick out tongue

  • this whole article is great, but this is relevent to show thats its normal during pregnancy!:

    https://www.parents.com/pregnancy/my-body/aches-pains/embarrassing-pregnancy-problems/?page=11

    my nightmares oddly haven't really been baby related, but have instead included?predator dinosaurs attacking me in a world where i'm the only human left and last night I had one where my husband has chosen his mother over me and decides to move back in with her and I totally freak out!!!! ?

    ?

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  • Craziness! I 'm having all kinds of weird dreams as well; in between these, getting up to pee 10x/night and the dark circles under my eyes, I look and feel like crap
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