Community› The Bump Message Boards› 2nd Trimester
2nd Trimester
New Discussion

What are people thinking?

agdudley08agdudley08
in 2nd Trimester

DH's uncle passed away over the weekend.  Everyone was gathered at his grandmother's house most of the weekend.  On Saturday, I had gone with his sister to Wal-Mart while he stayed there with family.

While I was gone a girl who his grandma had babysat many years ago came by to visit.  She talked to everyone & then pulled DH to the side & said "I really regret not going out with you."  He just blew it off & didn't think anything else about it. 

Later when we got home he comes in the bedroom & says "I just wanted to be honest & up front with you.  B------- just texted me & asked if I was happy in my marriage & with you."  Of course he told her yes he was very happy & not at all interested in starting something with her.  What kind of person does that?!  I know I'm overly emotional right now & not feeling the hottest I've ever felt, but really...  He did everything he could to make me feel better about myself & tells me over & over how amazing I am & how beautiful he thinks I am.

This person has a history of "stalkerish" behavior & kept his cell number for the past 3 years.  I'm not at all worried about him wanting to fool around but I am worried she may get crazy. 

Report Reply to Post

Re: What are people thinking?

  • mrs.mulrinemrs.mulrine
    Oh no! I'm sorry! Girls are dumb, at least ones who think it's ok to do that! If it starts to get wild, can you call your provider and have the number blocked? It sounds like your DH is a great guy, maybe him ignoring her for a bit will do the trick? Sorry it's happening, but it sounds like your DH loves you very much and you have little to worry about other then her being pesky and annoying! GL!!
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • VampyGirlVampyGirl
    Wow, What a.....Theres no nice way of putting it....Dont let it get to you. I myself wouldnt want him to speak to her anymore since we know where her head is. People are just so dumb. They really dont care about anything but themself.
    Lilypie Maternity tickers Daisypath Happy Birthday tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Report Reply
  • BFab11BFab11 member

    How weird!!  First off, I'm glad that you trust DH enough that he can come to you with these types of things and doesn't have to worry about you getting pissed at him about it.  

    The only thing you can do right now is be happy that you have such a hot, sexy hubby, lol.  As long as you know that he has no intention of doing anything about it, I say just let it go.  If she makes a thing about it or starts to get weird, you need to trust your DH to handle it and shut her down from the start.  

    GL! 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • agdudley08agdudley08
    Yeah.  He is a great guy!  I completely trust him & am not worried about that at all.  Especially when the next day he out of the blue says to me "how is it you can love a person so much you haven't even met?"  He meant himself about our baby girl!  Then last night he felt her move for the first time.  The look of absolute joy & amazement on his face was priceless!  Just knowing that we made that little person out of love is all I will ever need to know.  Why would he leave all that for some wanna be home wrecker?!
    Report Reply
  • agdudley08agdudley08

    BFab11

    I don't know how to quote but what you said about having a hot, sexy hubby.  A little later after this happened I was like "alright you heart-throb, I don't mean to bust your bubble but the dishes need to be done."  haha

    Report Reply
  • BFab11BFab11 member

    Aw the way you talk about your hubby makes me smile!  It reminds me of me and my DH :)  He is a police officer, and he always tells me when he gets hit on while on duty (gotta love a man in uniform), and it makes me laugh.  Firstly because I know that he would never do anything, and secondly because I know it's a self-esteem boost for him, it doesn't bug me at all.

     When we're laying in bed and he tells me how proud he is to be my husband, and how great of a mom I'm gonna be, I just can't believe how lucky I am to have found such a wonderful, caring person to be with and have babies with.  Sounds like you're just as lucky as I am!!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • Liz710Liz710
    Wow, I really don't understand why anyone would think its ok to try to come between a husband and wife.  I hope he told her that she was way out of line and not to talk to him again for any reason.  What a horrible person!
    <a href="http://s26.photobucket.com/albums/c122/DubZPicZ/?action=view
    Report Reply
  • MKinney86MKinney86

    Ugh I had to deal with this about a year ago too. Some little tramp got my DH's number from a mutual friend, they had met at a party years ago but he just flat out wasn't interested in her. She was constantly trying to friend him on facebook, she sent him pictures and would text him  from time to time all while knowing we were together. He always showed me every message so I knew what was going on. At first he thought it was funny and just deleted them as they came but then she started being very persistent and started to get a little nuts. After she showed up to our house half drunk on Thanksgiving we'd had enough, he changed his number blocked her on facebook, and told her if she ever contacted us again he would file an immediate restraining order. Some women just have no class.

    I'm sorry that's happening for you, it sounds like your DH knows where his family is and truley loves you.

    Report Reply
  • mr&mrswelchmr&mrswelch
    Wow.
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"