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31 is not so fun

KeriMacKeriMac
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I m/c on Valentine's Day and today is my 31st birthday.  I am so fortunate to have SO MANY wonderful family and friends trying to make this day special for me, and my heart is just not in it - I am feeling so sad still!  I had hoped I would have stopped bleeding by today, but no...

Thanks for letting me vent.  I know I am being a whiner and I should be happy for the good things in my life, but it is still hard....

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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    How you are feeling is certainly understandable and you definately have a right to vent.......I am sorry for your loss   (((hugs))))  Try to enjoy the remainder of the day.
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  • GinaincaliGinaincali member
    ::hugs:: I know how you feel today is my 27th birthday.  13 days before my 26th birthday we lost our baby girl.  It's rough, I can't say the second year is any better but it's better then the first.   Try to do something nice for yourself hun. 
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  • jrhodes09jrhodes09
    ((hugs))
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member

    Hugs.  I hope the rest of your day is better.

    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • sweetgirl425sweetgirl425 member

    I think what you are feeling is completely normal and you should definitely not feel guilty about it. The loss is still "fresh" and it's hard to be happy when you have been through that!! It does get better, but just allow yourself to go through the process! 

    (((Hugs))) I hope you feel a little better and still manage to have a good 31st birthday! 

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  • mdm2137mdm2137

    ((hugs))


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • panseyfacepanseyface member

    I'm so sorry it's been a hard day.  I'm glad everyone is trying hard to make it better.

    On a side note, your daughter is adorable!

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  • simbajspsimbajsp member

    I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel. My D&C was on 9-9-09 and my birthday is 9/14, and I turned the lovely 31 as well and was in no mood to "celebrate". ((BIG HUGS)).

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  • carebear08carebear08
    I'm sorry for your loss. You have every right to vent! I completely understand how you feel. I m/c the week before you and today is my 31st bday as well. I hope that the rest of you 31st year goes well for you and you get everything that you want, especially that sticky baby! Cake
    After 3 miscarriages, I got my forever baby! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • butterfly843butterfly843

    Sending hugs, I am having issues with my upcoming 30th birthday.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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