I usually don't get involved in this but the 2nd response to this woman's post literally made me
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/32049661.aspx
This is one of the saddest comments I've seen from a mom of a 4 week old. CIO for up to 20 minutes??? WTF?
Re: Beating a dead CIO horse...
Exactly. To someone with a one week old.
And 0-3 is wondering why others feel the need to chime in.
When you give a tired mother a suggestion that will "surprise" them at how great it works *eyeroll* they may just try it out because they are tired.
Uhm... Lots of people CIO for more than 20 minutes? I don't understand why this is a problem. Wonderful if you have a good sleeper. Pat yourself on the back.
Oh, I just realized you think it was the 4 week old. Yeah, no dice, that goes without saying.
Actually, I think the baby she is suggesting this to is a 1 week old.