TTC After a Loss

I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer or anything (PIPs)

I hope I am being a big AW baby for no reason. But:

Sun (AF "Due"):

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Mon:

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Today (an no, not FMU. But still):

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It's there, but I doubt it's even showing up in the pic.

 

Re: I'm not trying to be a Debbie Downer or anything (PIPs)

  • I don't see any PIPS
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  • No PIP's. 

    I hope its just a fluke.  <crosses fingers>

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  • I dont know if I am the only one but I dont see any pics attached.
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  • imagekona08:
    I don't see any PIPS

    I thought it was just me.  Can't see them either.

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  • Never mind - now I see them.  I really would just try to relax and wait for FMU.  Are you getting betas or going to the doctor?
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  • I can see the pics. You gotta remember, the tests are positive or negitave. They are NOT diagnostic, at all! If you are having concerns have your doc draw betas.
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  • Ok...

    That would be enough to make me concerned, but there are sooo many things that could be interfering with hCG in afternoon pee this early.  There's definitely a good chance you're being a whiny baby for nothing.

    As I said below, go get betas!!

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  • imagerjl07:
    Never mind - now I see them.  I really would just try to relax and wait for FMU.  Are you getting betas or going to the doctor?

    I don't want betas. I have an appointment on 3/3 to confirm it's in the uterus.

  • I still see it in the 3rd-yes its lighter, but its not FMU.  I am not giving up for you.  Giant hugs Allison.
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  • imagexleslieraex:
    I can see the pics. You gotta remember, the tests are positive or negitave. They are NOT diagnostic, at all! If you are having concerns have your doc draw betas.

    This!  Call your doc, hun.  ((hugs))  And POAS with FMU tomorrow morning.  Please do not worry yourself, stress is never good.  ((hugs))

  • I honestly don't think they look all that different. From your earlier post,  I expected the earlier ones to be practically red with darkness.

    However, I hate having sunshine  blown up my own ass so I don't do it to others. Regardless of the outcome, I'm sorry you're stressing and worrying over this right now. It's just not fair. What are you going to do? Keep PingOAS or call the doc?

  • imageambrandau2:

    imagerjl07:
    Never mind - now I see them.  I really would just try to relax and wait for FMU.  Are you getting betas or going to the doctor?

    I don't want betas. I have an appointment on 3/3 to confirm it's in the uterus.

    I didn't want them, but I'm glad I got them last time around.  It gave an indication of how far things had progressed, which will help with diagnostics.  Worst case, it will confirm what you suspect.  Best case, it will show that this is a healthy, likely viable pregnancy.

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  • I can see the pics. I had that with this past pg, and things were fine at the time. My betas were doubling and in a few days my test line got super dark. It was probably just a fluke. Test again in 2 days and see what happens. Good luck to you!
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  • I definitely see two lines in the third picture.  Take a deep breath and calm down.  (I don't mean that in a snarky way at all).  I am praying for you and you LO.

    ETA: to say 3rd picture

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  • Are the first two from 1 pack, and this one from a second pack? Cause the tests can vary from pack to pack in there sensitivity.

    With my BFP in August, my FRER tests were dark, then light, then I got nothing on a dollar store cheapie, then light again on a FRER then I got a digi and it was Positive. I stopped peeing after the digi. But I think stay calm, pee tomorrow.

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  • I feel like it's not time to throw in the towel yet.  I might go get betas now.  I know you were waiting for an appt, but it might be good to try to get in tomorrow.  It could be a number of things.  With my first, I was 2wks late and took a test and the line barely showed up.  Another test from the same box was a flashing neon lighted arrow pointing to it.

    Save some pee, and go take another one.

  • imageambrandau2:

    imagerjl07:
    Never mind - now I see them.  I really would just try to relax and wait for FMU.  Are you getting betas or going to the doctor?

    I don't want betas. I have an appointment on 3/3 to confirm it's in the uterus.

    Seriously, get betas. Waiting until 3/3 will drive you nuts. At least you will know if your hcg is going up or down (doubling) instead of driving yourself nuts like this. With betas you will know in 2 days! 

  • Are you kidding me. I can totally see it... And the others were FMU. Quit stressing it girl and STEP AWAY FROM THE PEE STICKS MID DAY!!! Does not matter if you held it for hours or not... FMU or don't POAS. GOT IT!?!

    Good...Wink

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  • i see lines in all three.  I really think it's got to do with whether it's fmu or not.  hang in there and test again tomorrow morning with FMU.
  • Mondays test looks darker than sunday.  I don't see a second line in the 3rd pic...sorry!  I hope everything works out for you.
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  • STOP stressing out!!!  And stop peeing on things!!!  Hehe!!  You got a positive!  But maybe a beta would keep you stress free until 3/3?  I'm praying for you and your LO. 
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  • Okay, I called. They are going to call me back and set up the beta draw.

    Damnittohell.

  • The second line is clearly darker than the first.  I bet today's would have been darker too if you used FMU.

    HCG doubles in 48 hours, so I wouldn't expect to see the line change too much from yesterday to today regardless.

    I hope your test tomorrow is darker :)

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  • imageambrandau2:

    Okay, I called. They are going to call me back and set up the beta draw.

    Damnittohell.

    Good.  Good luck!! 

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  • Don't worry, as a previous poster said... they are not diagnostic tests. Sending you T & P.
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  • I see the line in all 3.

     

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  • I know you're not going to be able to but you need to relax and retest tomorrow with FMU.  To me there could be a ton of reasons it is light: a bad test, not enough urine on the test, you're still early and you drank too much water and it's diluted, etc.  You need to be the glass is half full right now, for all the reasons I listed there may be nothing wrong at all and you are worrying yourself sick over nothing.  I'm going to be the glass is half full for you and believe that everything is good.

  • imageambrandau2:

    Okay, I called. They are going to call me back and set up the beta draw.

    Damnittohell.

    I got advice from a cranky old TTCAL'er and she told me to stop peeing on things.  You should too. :)

    I'm  saying a little prayer for you right now.  I know you'll keep us posted. ::hugs::

  • imageCruzMommyG:

    Are you kidding me. I can totally see it... And the others were FMU. Quit stressing it girl and STEP AWAY FROM THE PEE STICKS MID DAY!!! Does not matter if you held it for hours or not... FMU or don't POAS. GOT IT!?!

    Good...Wink

    Love you!! Big Smile

    This 100%!  You cant POAS in the middle of the day and expect it to be as dark as the FMU.  I dont think there is anything abnormal about these at all!

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  • imageColindaP:

    I honestly don't think they look all that different. From your earlier post,  I expected the earlier ones to be practically red with darkness.

    However, I hate having sunshine  blown up my own ass so I don't do it to others. Regardless of the outcome, I'm sorry you're stressing and worrying over this right now. It's just not fair. What are you going to do? Keep PingOAS or call the doc?

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  • imageColindaP:

    I honestly don't think they look all that different. From your earlier post,  I expected the earlier ones to be practically red with darkness.

    However, I hate having sunshine  blown up my own ass so I don't do it to others. Regardless of the outcome, I'm sorry you're stressing and worrying over this right now. It's just not fair. What are you going to do? Keep PingOAS or call the doc?

    this exactly.

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  • imageSpeedGlenn:
    imageambrandau2:

    Okay, I called. They are going to call me back and set up the beta draw.

    Damnittohell.

    I got advice from a cranky old TTCAL'er and she told me to stop peeing on things.  You should too. :)

    I'm  saying a little prayer for you right now.  I know you'll keep us posted. ::hugs::

    She sounds delightful. And wise. And sexy, I can sense that in your description of her.

     

  • imageambrandau2:

    She sounds delightful. And wise. And sexy, I can sense that in your description of her.

    She totally is. There is a long line of nesties that would pay to hump her leg...At least that's what the rumor is.  I should tell her, in case she needs some extra cash around the holidays. Hmmmm...

  • {{hugs}}  You'll feel better after seeing the doctor.  And really once you find out you are pregnant, stop testing!
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  • I see the line in all three, yesterdays was the darkest but remember the huge difference is FMU and not. I understand you being worried, you have every right to be.  Call your doc, get betas and test tomorrow because I really think it will make you feel better.
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  • Everyone else seemed to covered everything I could say, so I'll just go with that I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best. (hugs) I'm thinking positive for you love!
  • imageCruzMommyG:

    Are you kidding me. I can totally see it... And the others were FMU. Quit stressing it girl and STEP AWAY FROM THE PEE STICKS MID DAY!!! Does not matter if you held it for hours or not... FMU or don't POAS. GOT IT!?!

    Good...Wink

    Love you!! Big Smile

    This definitely. I'm still praying for your LO though.

  • I see all three lines... you should call your doctor about b/w.
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