Here I sit...a year and a month of waiting, and I want to look closely at my "filters". DH isn't necessarily with me so I am gathering information regarding exposure to drug and alcohol in utero.
How did you make your decision regarding drugs, tobacco, and alcohol?
Did you feel differently than your spouse or partner? If you are willing to share your filters, I'd love to get a sense of what others are willing to accept or NOT compromise on.
Any suggested reading?