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If you use OPKs, what is your FWP plan?

Do you BD e/o/d? What day do you start? Every day after +?

Just curious. :)

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Re: If you use OPKs, what is your FWP plan?

  • I usually start BD'ing a few days before I get a pos. OPK, then if I get a pos just try to be sure to BD that day and the day after!!!
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  • The cycle I got my BFP I had sex every other day until I got a +OPK, then I had sex that day, and the next day.  If I get another day of +OPK then I would have sex for another day on top of that.  My OB says the only day that matters is O day itself.

    My chart are in my siggy (the august one is my BFP) if that didn't make any sense. 

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  • We BD every other day after AF is done and then every day right before I expect a positive, then 2 days after. I ovulated on CD 12 or 13 before m/c, so we would start every day at CD 10 and then stop about 15 or 16.


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  • imageMrs.EmmaLouise:
    My OB says the only day that matters is O day itself.

    I don't really agree with that. If you O at 3:00 AM and don't have sex until 10 PM that night, it's been almost 20 hours since your egg dropped. While you technically can count that as sex on O day, it'd be a long shot to get KU that cycle. We can pinpoint O day, but we can't pinpoint O TIME, and an egg only lives for ~12 hours, so  I think the O-1 and O-2 are most important. That's just my opinion, though, and I'm most certainly not a Dr.  

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  • i use opks but we tried e/o/d this cycle.  the day i got a + opk we did not do the deed since we did it the night before and the day after.  i have a feeling it didn't work though since i'm feeling pms/af symptoms.  :o(

    i think next cycle we may start bd'ing at cd 10 e/o/d and then if we get a + opk do it every day.

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    imageMrs.EmmaLouise:
    My OB says the only day that matters is O day itself.

    I don't really agree with that. If you O at 3:00 AM and don't have sex until 10 PM that night, it's been almost 20 hours since your egg dropped. While you technically can count that as sex on O day, it'd be a long shot to get KU that cycle. We can pinpoint O day, but we can't pinpoint O TIME, and an egg only lives for ~12 hours, so  I think the O-1 and O-2 are most important. That's just my opinion, though, and I'm most certainly not a Dr.  

    Oh, I don't agree with it either.  I was just saying that is her belief.  If I believed it DH and I would not have marathon sex weeks every damn month.

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  • We do it every day I get a +.
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  • FWP as soon as it looks like it gets dark, I try to make sure it's the day before, on and after a positive OPK. But then again I only use OPKs sparadically and have never had a BFP the months I've used them.
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  • This month we started e/o/d or sometimes more until I got my + (yesterday), & we plan to e/d for a few more days.
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