NTR: first impression of your DH/SO?

lpennie16 · February 2010

Do you remember your first impression of your DH/SO?

DH and I were in a class together. I just remember him as this jock guy who talked really loud and liked to gesture a lot.

We went to a bar with some classmates after the last class and I remember him looking at just me the whole time and his eyes were so dark and sexy.

Oh memories.

punkfiction_v.3 · February 2010

hahaha omg yes. i thought he was a nerd. i had no idea why he was working at the bar we all worked at. i did not think he fit in at all.

then i tested him with the "how do you take your shirt off" test. he passed. we made out. the rest is history.

angelynn8411 · February 2010

we were friends for a year first, and while I thought he was hilarious & one of the nicest guys on the planet, I just didn't think he was my type. I gave him a shot & the rest is history

userdeleted · February 2010

We met at work. I remember thinking he was hysterically funny. He is one of those people that can just sit there making you laugh so hard you feel like an idiot because you can't stop

lpennie16 · February 2010

punkfiction_v.3:

hahaha omg yes. i thought he was a nerd. i had no idea why he was working at the bar we all worked at. i did not think he fit in at all.

then i tested him with the "how do you take your shirt off" test. he passed. we made out. the rest is history.

what is this shirt test? Sounds like a good test.

MissModularHome · February 2010

I met him in a Starbucks. He was so intensely handsome. Dark eyes, hair, skin. He was wearing khakis and a button down. He made my toes curl.

I just remember taking in his physical look, and the smell of his cologne. Oh, and I thought he was deaf and had a glowing blue hearing aid. But I was instantly attracted to him.

alheystek · February 2010

I was sort of with someone, so I really didn't pay much attention to him. Then we started talking on myspace and I convinced my friend to call him and tell him to take me on a date.

Ever since then, we have hardly been apart for more than a couple of days. Big Smile

macchiatto · February 2010

I met him at my grad school orientation; he was a second-year student, helping lead it. For some reason I assumed he was married and had a couple of kids at home; I don't know why, he just had that vibe. So the first conscious thought I had about him was, "He seems like he'd be a great husband and father. It's a shame there aren't more single guys around here like that." True story.

Alli3586 · February 2010

I was in a serious relationship and my friend would always talk about DH. She would say how she wished she could set us up(my ex was an ass), how cute he was etc. Well, about a month after my relationship ended she dragged me out with them and I met him. I couldn't get over how hot he was! We were at a strip club, lol, and he kept his eyes on me the entire night and we had a blast. We pretty much never separated since then.

lisaroo · February 2010

I was sitting in my then-boyfriend's lap when he walked in the room. The thought "that's my husband" popped into my head. No joke. Boyfriend and I broke up, and seven months after we started dating, DH and I got engaged. Boyfriend was a good sport and came to our wedding

Mrs.Goldenblatt · February 2010

He come up to me while I was working at the mall and I thought he was the biggest dork. He had HUGE glasses and was really really skinny. Something told me to page him (remember the days of beppers lol) anyway after he gave me his number. I wound up totally hooked on my dork. FF to now, he's got smaller glasses and I plumped him up.

Alli3586 · February 2010

lisaroo:
I was sitting in my then-boyfriend's lap when he walked in the room. The thought "that's my husband" popped into my head. No joke. Boyfriend and I broke up, and seven months after we started dating, DH and I got engaged. Boyfriend was a good sport and came to our wedding

I know what you mean. About a month into dating DH I remember walking into his bedroom and thinking, "I'm going to marry and have kids with this guy". Crazy, but true!

kelbrian · February 2010

I thought, "Wow, he's ripped."

We were at a lifeguard training class at a pool :P

Jeremy'sMom · February 2010

Yes, I remember quite vividly although it was 15 (damn!) years ago. I was in 8th grade and he was in 7th, and it was at a school dance. We met through a mutual friend but were pining for other people at the time. I thought he was such a loser when I first met him, as mean as that sounds. And he thought the same about me.

We did become friends though, and over the next two years, I remember thinking how handsome he was becoming and wished he would ask me out. He did, and the rest is history!

Gramyson · February 2010

i thought (and still think) he was the most gorgeous man i'd ever seen. and one word went through my mind, "big". lol.

and he was big. big head, big heart, big personality, big body, big...:)

he thought highly of me too, apparently. we both went home that night and told our parents we met the person we were going to marry.

mrszimm · February 2010

I met him when I was skipping school with a bunch of my friends at 16 (LOL!). He was 19 and stopped by my friend's house to pick up his younger step brother whom I was friends with . I remember thinking he was so cute and mouthing to my best friend across the room, "who's that?"

Mama Jan · February 2010

First impression was he was a young punk kid. (and I was right)

lite-bright · February 2010

I met him through a mutual college friend who'd gotten a group of people together to go out one night. I looked up as he was coming toward our table, and I thought, a) he looked like Stiffler, and b) he was too good-looking to actually be coming to sit down with us.

When we got to talking, my main impression was: super smart and good sense of humor!

laurenbug · February 2010

Haha, I like this post!

My first thought...he's a serious flirt! Then I thought he was cute...and funny...and he was trying to buy me multiple drinks (although I was the DD for my friends). He was oposite of anyone I'd dated, which was attractive to me!

Ahhh, memories Big Smile

chasingamyandmatt · February 2010

I have two. He was a bartender at a bar I frequented. The first time I saw him, I totally made fun of his hair, which he had bleached. My sister actually commented on this in her MOH speach at our wedding. (Turns out he did it himself before a cruise...bad idea!)

I also remember the first time he spoke to me. He told me I had a beautiful smile. I thought he was pushing for big tips. Turns out, her really thought so...still does. DD has that smile too

cabbage5215 · February 2010

Is was both of our first day of work(hired on the same day). I was sitting down and when he walked in the room I did a total double take- and we looked in each other's eyes for what felt like forever. Of course when someone asked me something I completely started stuttering.

We became good friends and I really liked him as a person when I got to know him. We didn't start dating until a year and a half later- but he still likes bringing up that day every once in a while.

EDIT_ Ok, I guess I had a long drawn out story that didn't answer the question. My first impression was that I was in complete awe for about 10 sec..

fIowerchild · February 2010

Total dork with terrible clothing choices.

Mrs. S Wilson · February 2010

I thought he was a major stud and didn't think I stood a chance. Glad I was wrong:)

JulyFiveBride · February 2010

Something along the lines of ::swoooon:: I was at a bible study with my BF and DH was the guest speaker. He was new to the area and I had actually already met and exchanged emails with his roommate who he moved to MI with, but had never met him. I thought he was super hot and was trying to figure out how I could talk to him without him connecting the dots that I was there with my BF. I did talk to him afterward (no idea where the heck my BF was at that point?) but he said I should add him on myspace, he was in his roommate's top 8 (LOL.) He posted a bulletin a few days later about being homesick and since I had moved to the city the year before, I messaged him some pointers about cool places and things to do. We ended up messaging back and forth for weeks, multiple times a day, then started texting, then meeting up on our lunch breaks...

He told me later that it used to drive him crazy to see the messages I sent his roommate. They shared a computer and so he'd see his roommate checking his emails and he'd check how long the message was and compare to see if the one I sent him was longer, haha. One of my really good friends ended up dating and then marrying his roommate, though.

engaged678 · February 2010

we met at the grungiest bar in town on a Tuesday night.
I was there for a birthday party against my will and he was there drowning in a very recent breakup.

He had really curly hair and I thought he was adorable. He told me that he had no friends and asked if I'd be his friend *worst pickup line EV.ER*

He flew home three provinces away for 2 weeks and we "met" over the phone.

When he came home we had both forgotten how the other looked but we were so hooked anyways. Luckily we're both cute Wink