s/o being afraid to have sex....(probably very TMI)

noah-bear · February 2010

The first time post-m/c I broke down crying when DH hit a certain...spot. For some reason, I still get that way if he hits the spot for too long. I don't know why. It's like an overwhelming feeling of something I can't even explain.

I was wondering if anyone has this same feeling?

Also, I was cut twice when I had DS and am still sore form the sutures (13 months later, ick) so that might have something to do with it...not sure.

TravelinMama · February 2010

Sorry, I've never experienced this. Have you been to your OB/GYN about this, that just doesn't sound right and not very enjoyable at all

Erin RN · February 2010

Did you have an epis? I've heard of them taking up to two years to fully heal. My cervix also got very, very sensitive after the D&C. It still is sometimes. My dr said that is normal though. I would talk to your dr.

noah-bear · February 2010

Erin RN:
Did you have an epis? I've heard of them taking up to two years to fully heal. My cervix also got very, very sensitive after the D&C. It still is sometimes. My dr said that is normal though.

I did. They put the vacuum in, cut down, put the vacuum in, cut in, pulled him out. It was brutal down there.

When I went in about 2 weeks after my m/c, my cervix was open and very soft. I haven't had it checked since then. It might be the cause of this.

Erin RN · February 2010

noah-bear:

Erin RN:
Did you have an epis? I've heard of them taking up to two years to fully heal. My cervix also got very, very sensitive after the D&C. It still is sometimes. My dr said that is normal though.

I did. They put the vacuum in, cut down, put the vacuum in, cut in, pulled him out. It was brutal down there.

When I went in about 2 weeks after my m/c, my cervix was open and very soft. I haven't had it checked since then. It might be the cause of this.

I hate when they use the vacuum like that! I wouldn't doubt that it has something to do with it. It could be a combination of your cervix and the repairs. Maybe your dr can give you some answers and hopefully offer some help.

ColindaP · February 2010

noah-bear:

I did. They put the vacuum in, cut down, put the vacuum in, cut in, pulled him out. It was brutal down there.

Sweet baby Jesus. ::rethinking having kids::

Erin RN · February 2010

P.S. It angers me more to see your son was only 34 weeks!! What was your dr thinking!!!

noah-bear · February 2010

ColindaP:
noah-bear:

I did. They put the vacuum in, cut down, put the vacuum in, cut in, pulled him out. It was brutal down there.
Sweet baby Jesus. ::rethinking having kids::

It's not common for them to use it. I have a small pelvis, DS has a big head, and I was in pre-term labor. My body hadn't shifted enough to help support him coming out.

I promise, they don't do it to you! Lol. Ok, maybe not promise.

ColindaP · February 2010

Well, if I ever do deliver, I'll probably do so with a midwife, and vacuums and scissors aren't really their style. Thank God. Plus I'm 5'10. I'm waaaay bigger than any baby.

weavjess · February 2010

I'm having a similar experience, and my reply is probably TMI as well. But it's like at a certain angle it feels like he's hitting my cervix really hard. Even when it seems "open", sometimes I notice it. My D&C was in November and I've noticed it since then. If you ever get more information I'd love to know, but I'm gonna ask my Doc about it.

noah-bear · February 2010

ColindaP:
Well, if I ever do deliver, I'll probably do so with a midwife, and vacuums and scissors aren't really their style. Thank God. Plus I'm 5'10. I'm waaaay bigger than any baby.

Lol I actually had a MW. She doesn't believe in cutting. Plus, they're not allowed to use vacuums.

DS was in distress (my water broke early) and he had to come out. I was about 5 min away from a c-section.

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