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Horrible day...need to vent saiw

Matthews WifeyMatthews Wifey member
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So my best friend who has 2 kids by 2 different dads and is not with either of them and is back and fourth with a complete *** just announced last night that shes pregnant again. She stopped taking her birth control and then started sleeping with him again and I told her she was crazy. She said it isn't easy getting pregnant anymore...only because I can't so why should she be able to so easily. Problem is she already has 2 kids so that should be a clue wouldn't you think.  I am so depressed. I know her pregnancy does not take away from my being able to get pg one day but why the f*** can someone who is so unstable get pg and my dh and I can't. 

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  • kkghottykkghotty member
    Oh, if only I had an answer to that question myself.  I ask it every.single.day.  I am so sorry that you are struggling.  ((HUGS))
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  • hopingforbaby#1in2010hopingforbaby#1in2010
    **sigh** Im so sorry hun!
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  • erinandbrockverinandbrockv
    Im sorry. It is so frustrating! I always think the same thing, and then I feel guilty about feeling that way.....but then I get angry again. It is a vicious cycle. Here's hoping we will all be able to get our BFP's soon!
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  • Matthews WifeyMatthews Wifey member
    Thanks everyone. It will be very hard to watch her get to do all the things I so badly want to do.
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    Oh, honey... answer that and I think you may have the answer to the meaning of life. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. IF is unfair, life is unfair and it's too bad that good people have to suffer. ((big hug)))
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  • Matthews WifeyMatthews Wifey member

    imageGinger71:
    Oh, honey... answer that and I think you may have the answer to the meaning of life. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. IF is unfair, life is unfair and it's too bad that good people have to suffer. ((big hug)))

     

    Thank you : )

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  • jds0521jds0521
    I'm so sorry you are having a bad day....big hugs.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member

    It's one of the great mysteries of life. I'll never get it.

    (((hugs))) 

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  • wiscgirl95wiscgirl95 member
    I'm so sorry that you're dealing a friend that makes poor choices--to say the least!  So much about all of that is incredibly unfair.  I hope she gets some stability in her life especially for the sake of her children. 
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