Apparently I need to disappear for a while myself.

greenclown · February 2010

My MIL just emailed me and answered a question I asked here last night. I asked her what she meant, and she said she was answering because I asked it last night. I only asked it here. I don't know WTF is going on, but this isn't cool.

princess101 · February 2010

What was the question?

KKM · February 2010

?

mrs.maybride · February 2010

What is going on today!!?! What question?

SoCaliAli · February 2010

Why is your MIL on the bump? Things are starting to get very weird around here.

mrs_kelly1014 · February 2010

WTF is going on here? This is all insane.

krate24 · February 2010

That's really strange. Did she tell you how she knew the question?

NavyClan · February 2010

wow. I'm sorry. I would be PISSED if my MIL was keeping tabs on me online without telling me.

akalutts · February 2010

My greatest concern is that my Mother is lurking. I made the mistake of going on here while at her house, and she is always checking the history on her computer because of my brothers.

Sorry to hear this GC.

What a shiitastic week. Sad

greenclown · February 2010

I asked if people here who are FB friends can see the March of Dimes banner on my page. She let me know that she can. Sorry, I didn't mean to be so cryptic, but I now feel like I have people reading over my shoulder.

ETA and she said I asked on a site if it's visible, so she's telling me it is.

jCamsquared · February 2010

Oh man.. I would be disappearing as well Tongue Tied

Not cool at all.

*KC*luvs*RJ* · February 2010

GC, I'm so sorry for this. Someone on here (a troll) obviously has something against women who have suffered loss and the sadness they're entitled to. Will you please FB me through TW? Or send me a PM? I will really miss you, and I want to keep in touch.

buckin · February 2010

Please ask her how you asked her the question. I would be interested to know if she is lurking or if someone emailed her something since they were on your blog..if she is a follower they may have figured out who she is.

StephanieBride1 · February 2010

W.T.F.

doyous&idos · February 2010

Seriously, WTF is wrong with people. I'm outraged for you, GC. I'm so sorry

weelass24 · February 2010

*KC*luvs*RJ*:
GC, I'm so sorry for this. Someone on here (a troll) obviously has something against women who have suffered loss and the sadness they're entitled to. Will you please FB me through TW? Or send me a PM? I will really miss you, and I want to keep in touch.

This post has nothing to do with trolls

princess101 · February 2010

Why does she feel the need to be so nosey? Sheesh. Crazy that she'd make it known that she's lurking here or something.

buckin · February 2010

OMG. but I wouldn't let that deter you. You never say anything out of the way that shouldn't be read by family or friends. They should be PROUD of you for being a part of an online community and offering/seeking support from/for those who know what you are going through.

Don't disappear...if anything, chance your screen name but don't leave us.

(this is getting out of hand).

greenclown · February 2010

I am just so upset right now. I understand that this is a public message board, but she apparently is coming here and reading my posts. I am shaking because I'm so upset. DH is calling her right now.

hippotree · February 2010

This blows.

PinkRoses · February 2010

I'm really sorry, GC. That would absolutely make me uncomfortable.

Do you think she's just trying to be supportive in some misguided way? Trying to make sure you're ok and trying to help? Not that that condones snooping, but I'm just trying to understand her thought process.

How is your relationship with her? Do you feel like you could ask her to respect your privacy?

I wish I could be more helpful. Big ((HUGS)).

weelass24 · February 2010

greenclown:
I am just so upset right now. I understand that this is a public message board, but she apparently is coming here and reading my posts. I am shaking because I'm so upset. DH is calling her right now.

I'm sorry sweetie.

mmkaye · February 2010

Wow. I am sorry. I would not like that at all.

jCamsquared · February 2010

greenclown:
I am just so upset right now. I understand that this is a public message board, but she apparently is coming here and reading my posts. I am shaking because I'm so upset. DH is calling her right now.

I'm so sorry. I wish we were just a little bit closer and I would be there in two seconds. ::hugs::

preppynewlywed · February 2010

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

Dr.BeepersWife · February 2010

I agree with Preppy. It pisses me off people are ruining BOTB for you and TW.

::hugs::

Frogsdontpoop · February 2010

preppynewlywed:

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

This is not a "safe place." Its the internet. The internet, unless password protected (and maybe not even then) is open to the public.

On the flip- GC- sorry that this happened to you.

The drama these days are unreal.

oh-zysbaby · February 2010

preppynewlywed:
Ugh I am so sorry.
I hate that people are losing their safe place.
((HUGS))

This. It isn't fair.

I think I may need to go back and DD some stuff.

ashdonne · February 2010

I am so sorry GC---this is not fair at all. I can't believe someone would invade "privacy" like that. People need to have more respect for each other especially in a loss situation.

Mysterious_wife · February 2010

Frogsdontpoop:
preppynewlywed:

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

This is not a "safe place." Its the internet. The internet, unless password protected (and maybe not even then) is open to the public.

On the flip- GC- sorry that this happened to you.

The drama these days are unreal.

Hell may have froze. I agree with this.

LucyAnnie · February 2010

This is unreal. I can't believe it has to happen to one person let alone another.

I am so sorry!

Ashleyyyyy · February 2010

OMG. This makes me sick for you and now I want to change my SN. Indifferent

Jenandtonica · February 2010

Mysterious_wife:
Frogsdontpoop:
preppynewlywed:

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

This is not a "safe place." Its the internet. The internet, unless password protected (and maybe not even then) is open to the public.

On the flip- GC- sorry that this happened to you.

The drama these days are unreal.

Hell may have froze. I agree with this.

Yup.

MandyBrownNoser · February 2010

Jenandtonica:
Mysterious_wife:
Frogsdontpoop:
preppynewlywed:

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

This is not a "safe place." Its the internet. The internet, unless password protected (and maybe not even then) is open to the public.

On the flip- GC- sorry that this happened to you.

The drama these days are unreal.

Hell may have froze. I agree with this.
Yup.

I think I've agreed with the banana chick before so doesn't constitute he'll freezing but I do agree with her again. This is the Internet- if you put it out there, it can be found. To have any illusion that this or any other Internet site is a "safe place" is ridiculous.

preppynewlywed · February 2010

MandyBrownNoser:
Jenandtonica:
Mysterious_wife:
Frogsdontpoop:
preppynewlywed:

Ugh I am so sorry.

I hate that people are losing their safe place.

((HUGS))

This is not a "safe place." Its the internet. The internet, unless password protected (and maybe not even then) is open to the public.

On the flip- GC- sorry that this happened to you.

The drama these days are unreal.

Hell may have froze. I agree with this.
Yup.
I think I've agreed with the banana chick before so doesn't constitute he'll freezing but I do agree with her again. This is the Internet- if you put it out there, it can be found. To have any illusion that this or any other Internet site is a "safe place" is ridiculous.

I understand it is public, but I still think of this as a place where I can say what I need to say.

Do I know that there is a chance someone I know IRL can figure out who I am? Absolutely.

I am thinking more "safe place" like a place where we can chat with each other without our MILs finding it.

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