If you had the option to find out the gender early through an elective ultrasound, would you? Step-BIL's fiance works at a 3-d ultrasound place in town, and has offered to do an early ultrasound at 16 weeks so we can find out the sex.
I really want to do it, but DH is not so sure. He wants to wait and let the Dr. do an official ultrasound at 20 weeks. WWYD?
Re: Elective ultrasounds
If it was free, I would do it.
But I wouldn't start painting or anything until after it's confirmed for sure later on.
natural m/c and d&c at 10 weeks - 1/24/2014
DX w/ hetero C677t and A1298C MTHFR - 3/4/2014
Go for it! I had the first u/s at 10 weeks by DH's cousin and went at 15 weeks to a friend (just for fun) and found out the sex
My doc's office doesn't do a u/s period until 20-ish weeks. (My "official" was at 17 weeks)
I'm sure you aren't planning on stocking the nursery after this u/s anyway.