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So I filed our taxes last night

crystalknppcrystalknpp member
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and were getting a large amount of money back and it's all going to paying off my bills from the ectopic pregnancy surgery and the 4 nights I spent in the hospital! I'm happy that well have an extra $300 a month to put in the bank once there paid off but it sucks that all that money has to go towards paying for such a horrible experience and the loss of our Little One.

"Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

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  • islelilyislelily member

    It does stink that you have to use it for all of that.

    We thought with buying our house, we'd get a lot of money back... we still owe! :(

    Oh, Baby Bean! We will always miss you! With us for 6w3d -- June 9, 2008.
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    It does stink that you have to use it for all of that.

    We thought with buying our house, we'd get a lot of money back... we still owe! :(

    Wouldn't you guys qualify for the First Time Home Buyers Tax Credit?

    "Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

    Our TTC Journey

    BabyFetus Ticker

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    I'm a mom to my 4 angel babies who were taken from us much to soon!
    BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
    BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
    BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
    IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
    IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
    Benjamin Matthew Our Little Miracle Born 9/5/2012!
    BFP 1/2/14 EDD 9/11/14

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  • islelilyislelily member
    imagecrystalknpp:
    imageislelily:

    It does stink that you have to use it for all of that.

    We thought with buying our house, we'd get a lot of money back... we still owe! :(

    Wouldn't you guys qualify for the First Time Home Buyers Tax Credit?

     We did. Here's the kicker (love that expression LOL):  We took out DH's 401K to help with the down payment. They penalized us for that (we knew that), and also counted it as additional income for the year. That pushed us over the salary cap for the full 8K, so we are only receiving about $3,500.  

    That is going towards the taxes/penalty of withdrawing the 401K early along with being in a higher tax bracket, we still owe. :( 

    Oh, Baby Bean! We will always miss you! With us for 6w3d -- June 9, 2008.
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    2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.
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  • islelilyislelily member
    If we had gotten the full amount, we'd have a pretty penny coming back to us! We had these grand plans for bedroom furniture, a nice sectional for the basement theater, etc
    Oh, Baby Bean! We will always miss you! With us for 6w3d -- June 9, 2008.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.
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  • crystalknppcrystalknpp member

    imageislelily:
    If we had gotten the full amount, we'd have a pretty penny coming back to us! We had these grand plans for bedroom furniture, a nice sectional for the basement theater, etc

    Thats really crappy I'm sorry! Figures that the government would find a way to get out of giving you all of your money!

    "Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

    Our TTC Journey

    BabyFetus Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    I'm a mom to my 4 angel babies who were taken from us much to soon!
    BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
    BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
    BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
    IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
    IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
    Benjamin Matthew Our Little Miracle Born 9/5/2012!
    BFP 1/2/14 EDD 9/11/14

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