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Did you ever go back to your pre-pregnancy size?

GC's page about Lilly Pulitzer made me think of this.

I was a size 2 pre-pregnancy.

Will I ever be a size 2 again?

I don't necessarily care, but I am trying to decide what I should do with all of my clothes.  Do I keep them and dream that they will one day fit or should I start replacing them with a 4 or 6?

ETA: Most of my friends who have kids have struggled to lose the pregnancy weight and are still 15+ lbs heavier even up to 2 or 3 years later.

Re: Did you ever go back to your pre-pregnancy size?

  • I am also wondering this.  Although I'm not a size 2...

     



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  • I might get down to a 14 again, but things will never FIT the same again
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  • I am not.  I am 10 lbs heavier and don't see ever losing it, unless I unexpectedly become a SAHM.  I just do not have the time to exercise and honestly, I don't mid so much.  Everyone says I looked to skinny anyway.

    I'm going to purge all my pre-preg clothes in the spring.  Crying

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  • I did.  It took several months though, because my hips took forever to go back down (and my ribs... thanks for habitating there Nathan).  LOL

    BFF is also a stick like me and she's managed to go back to a size 2 after both of her pregnancies.  I'm interested to see if she gets that lucky a third time after this one. 

    Keep your pre-pg clothes but buy a few pairs of 4s and 6s to wear until your hips go back to normal.

  • I weigh less than I did right before I got pregnant and the pants I was wearing then still don't fit me.  It's like stuff got all shifted around or something.  I'm not giving up hope about them fitting again.
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  • You can certainly get back to that size, but your body may forever be a SHAPE you don't recognize. You may wear the same size jeans, but a different fit, if that makes sense. And it takes a WHILE.
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  • It just depends on the article of clothing.

    Having a baby doesn't mean you'll forever weigh more than you did pre-PG, but it could mean your body will be shaped different.

    I'm back in all my old clothes with the exception of several shirts that won't button across my chest anymore.

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  • I'm still 9lbs over.

    Even if you lose the weight, your body will be different. Likely, your hips will be wider. I wouldn't get rid of anything yet. 

    Every person is different though. If breastfeeding works out, that will be a big help. If you're bfing. I pumped for four weeks, and then stopped. And that's when I stopped losing weight. The other 11lbs was through diet and exercise and time.

    The last nine...well...I hope I get KU soon so I can stop thinking about it. 

  • imagemrs.maybride:
    I might, but things will never FIT the same again

     

    This.  I weigh less now than I did when I got pregnant with DS, but all my weight shifted to the front.  I hate it.  Advice: sit-ups are your pp friend. 

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  • I should also add that the pp's are right about your shape maybe being different.  My lower body isn't that much different than it was pre-pg except that I actually have a butt now.  It's a nice change though since my backside never filled out my jeans right pre-pg. 
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    I'm still 9lbs over.

    Even if you lose the weight, your body will be different. Likely, your hips will be wider. I wouldn't get rid of anything yet. 

    Every person is different though. If breastfeeding works out, that will be a big help. If you're bfing. I pumped for four weeks, and then stopped. And that's when I stopped losing weight. The other 11lbs was through diet and exercise and time.

    The last nine...well...I hope I get KU soon so I can stop thinking about it. 

    Damnit.  I didn't think my hips could get any wider!! :(



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  • I was a size 2 pre-pregnancy and I'm definitely back there (DD is 9 months). I know I might get shot for saying this, but I'm actually smaller now than I was right before I got pg. I have just weaned my DD, so I think that played a huge role in it. DO NOT get rid of your clothes (unless you want to give them to me. We are in the same city and all! ;), you will wear them again one day (although, don't try your jeans on a couple of weeks after delivery. I have a couple of pairs of Sevens that I spent way too much money on and I was determined to get back into them. I tried them on one month PP and it was the most depressing thing I've ever done. I can happily wear them now, though!)

    Wow - long rant. Sorry!

  • With my son I was a size 6 and 3 days later I could wear my clothes, but I had only gained 18 lbs.  With my first daughter it took 4 months to get back to a size 8 because I gained 70 lbs or so lol.  I did get back to a size 4 later, so pregnancy didn't change my body so much that I couldn't wear a smaller size, it just takes time to get back to a size that small.

    With this baby I was back to beginning weight in about 3 weeks, but I only gained about 22 lbs and she was early by 4.5 weeks.   Also, I am not a size 6-8 anymore and really don't want to try to get back to it lol.  I enjoy eating too much.

  • I'd love to have some hips.

    Pre-surgery I was built like a 10 year old boy then the removal of my ovary somehow gave me boobs...Other than those, pre-pregnancy I was still built like a 10 year old boy, and I wish I was kidding.

  • Not from personal experience, but from what I've seen of friends, it is kind of "hit-or-miss" & has a lot to do with genes. 

    I've known some girls that are pre-pregnancy weight & size, wearing pre-pregnancy clothing as early as 2 weeks PP.

    I've also known girls that never lose the baby weight, some carry more than others, but they are always heavier than pre-pregnancy.

    & I've known girls that reach pre-pregnancy weight on the scale, but can't fit in pre-pregnancy clothes - they are just built different after baby.

     I know this doesn't really answer the purge or keep question, but maybe it will help in some way :) 

  • I was 10-12 pre pg

    I am now a 4 

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    imageErin0806:

    I'm still 9lbs over.

    Even if you lose the weight, your body will be different. Likely, your hips will be wider. I wouldn't get rid of anything yet. 

    Every person is different though. If breastfeeding works out, that will be a big help. If you're bfing. I pumped for four weeks, and then stopped. And that's when I stopped losing weight. The other 11lbs was through diet and exercise and time.

    The last nine...well...I hope I get KU soon so I can stop thinking about it. 

    Damnit.  I didn't think my hips could get any wider!! :(

    I didn't think mine could either. WRONG. 

  • I went back to the same size, even a few pounds small, but I started a size 14.
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  • imagepreppynewlywed:

    Do I keep them and dream that they will one day fit or should I start replacing them with a 4 or 6?

    I must be the only person who finds this statement kind of Hmm-worthy.

    I mean, 1.) why would you start replacing them now and 2.) who's to say you won't end up *gasp* a size 8 or 10 when all is said and done?

    ;-P

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  • I was a heavier person to begin with but with DS I ate whateverthehell I wanted and I went up 2 sizes after birth.  With DD I was put on the GD diet at the end of my pg.  Thank goodness I did because I went back to my pre-pg weight after about 2 months (which was about 3 sizes up from before kids).  I'm still at ablout the same weight as pre-DD but I wish I could loose it and be back down to my pre-kids size.  I'd feel healthier.  I just have no self control when it comes to sweets :)
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  • imagemrs.maybride:
    I might get down to a 14 again, but things will never FIT the same again

    Oh THIS too.  Thing will never fit the same for me again.  Hips widen, belly gets flabby (at least with a c-section), etc

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  • I was a size 8 pre-pregnancy and I am still sitting at a size 10 now with about 12 lbs extra to boot. I would love to lose another 10 lbs and I am working on it, I have lost 5 lbs in the last 2 months so that's a start, but I don't know that I will ever wear my pre-preg jeans again.  Most of my jeans were low-riders and even if I do lose the weight I am extremely doubtful that I will lose all the tummy-pouchy thing, thus leading to muffin-tops in low-rise jeans which I HATE!  So I am thinking it is mid-rise for me from here on out.  I am going to give myself another 6 months or so of working to lose the weight and if the pants still are a no go I will purge them then.  ::sigh::
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  • imageDesignsOnYou:
    imagepreppynewlywed:

    Do I keep them and dream that they will one day fit or should I start replacing them with a 4 or 6?

    I must be the only person who finds this statement kind of Hmm-worthy.

    I mean, 1.) why would you start replacing them now and 2.) who's to say you won't end up *gasp* a size 8 or 10 when all is said and done?

    ;-P

    I don't think she's saying a 4 or 6 is big.  She just wants to be able to wear her old jeans again one day.  There's nothing wrong with that no matter what size you are.

  • imageDesignsOnYou:
    imagepreppynewlywed:

    Do I keep them and dream that they will one day fit or should I start replacing them with a 4 or 6?

    I must be the only person who finds this statement kind of Hmm-worthy.

    I mean, 1.) why would you start replacing them now and 2.) who's to say you won't end up *gasp* a size 8 or 10 when all is said and done?

    ;-P

    I have Grave's Disease, so honestly, chances are I won't end up more than 10 lbs over.  Up until now, I've lost weight so quickly that even with my my meds I struggle to keep weight on.

    Realistically, I'll probably never be bigger than a 6 just because of the Graves.

    I was thinking since there were a lot of sales right now I'd grab a few things in bigger sizes.

    ETA: Also what Leslie said.  I don't think anything above a 6 is big.  I just know that with my body and the Graves anything bigger than a 6 is probably unrealistic for me personally.

  • I haven't yet but I got pregnant when DS was 20 months old.  I will try again after I have this baby.  HTH
  • First, I hate you Steph.  Stick out tongue

    Second, I was size 8 pp.  I am now size 12.  I weigh the exact same...but everything has shifted so I carry my weight differently.

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    imageDesignsOnYou:
    imagepreppynewlywed:

    Do I keep them and dream that they will one day fit or should I start replacing them with a 4 or 6?

    I must be the only person who finds this statement kind of Hmm-worthy.

    I mean, 1.) why would you start replacing them now and 2.) who's to say you won't end up *gasp* a size 8 or 10 when all is said and done?

    ;-P

    I have Grave's Disease, so honestly, chances are I won't end up more than 10 lbs over.  Up until now, I've lost weight so quickly that even with my my meds I struggle to keep weight on.

    Realistically, I'll probably never be bigger than a 6 just because of the Graves.

    I was thinking since there were a lot of sales right now I'd grab a few things in bigger sizes.

    ETA: Also what Leslie said.  I don't think anything above a 6 is big.  I just know that with my body and the Graves anything bigger than a 6 is probably unrealistic for me personally.

    Makes sense ;-) I wasn't trying to be a butt but that just sounded kind of funny to me. 

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  • My experience is the extreme opposite of most, but I am 20lbs less than my pregnancy weight.  Then again, you all know my story.
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  • Preppy, you think wayyy too much. lol.
  • I haven't yet, but my pgs were pretty back to back. Heck, I was only out of maternity clothes a month or two before I got pg again. But I have not worked at all at losing weight.

    But one of my friends is a size 4 and was back to that 4 mo after her baby was born (I hate her ;) )

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  • imagemrs_b_2007:
    Preppy, you think wayyy too much. lol.

    I always come up with the most random concerns.

    Seriously.

    I haven't worried more than a second my entire pregnancy...

    ...but damnit I need to know if I should buy the winter sale clothes ;)

  • I was a size 5 pre-preg, stayed size 5 the whole pregnancy and after pregnancy from just BF'ing I went to a size 0.  Now that I've stopped BF'ing (and dont exercise or diet)  I am a size 4. 
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  • imagesandy02:
    I was a size 5 pre-preg, stayed size 5 the whole pregnancy and after pregnancy from just BF'ing I went to a size 0.  Now that I've stopped BF'ing (and dont exercise or diet)  I am a size 4. 

    And you look damn good!  Lol.

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  • I was an 8/10 pre-pg.  Yesterday for the first time in my life I bought size 6 dress pants.
  • i was 123 lb b4 i was KU now 3 years later i seem to be stuck at 132 lb, these few lbs just seem so hard to get off.
  • Yep.  I was wearing my pre-pregnancy jeans within a week of having DD and all my clothes fit by the time I had my 6 week appointment.  I am exactly the same size as before, with just a softer butt and gut (but I am working on that)
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