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IHO crazy "you shouldn't want to go out" girl (rant)

oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
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I WANT TO GO OUT.

I want out of this house. I want some time to myself. I want a haircut. I want a drink. I want a movie, or a class, or SOMETHING that is not in this house.

I love my children, even though there is that crazy girl running around thinking you don't love your kids if you want time for yourself, but I just need a break.

DH gets to leave all the damn time. He gets to go to work and be appreciated, he gets to play hockey usually 4 times a week, he's out at the mall with his buddy. He gets to get up in the morning and get dressed for work and get in the car and drive and listen to the radio. I  wear the same sweats for days to save on laundry and my hair is in a pony tail and headband every single day. I don't even really remember how to do it anymore.

ARGH. I'm just so frustrated. So, so frustrated.

/rant. For now.

 

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  • XXXXX222XXXXX222 member
    Sorry you are frustrated. :(  *hugs*
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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member

    imagesulfababy:
    Sorry you are frustrated. :(  *hugs*

    Thank you. I know in the scheme of things my problems are very minor. 

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  • WinsyWadeWinsyWade member
    I know how you feel!  (((hugs)))  Tell Dh you need some time for yourself.  Can DD "babysit" DS while you take some time or yourself? (ie; do your nails, take a bath, scrapbook, etc)
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  • greenclowngreenclown member

    I'd come babysit for you if I could.

    I take that back.  I'd find you a babysitter and take you out. 

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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member
    What is this crazy girl you are talking about?  OP or a link or something?
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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member

    imageWinsyWade:
    I know how you feel!  (((hugs)))  Tell Dh you need some time for yourself.  Can DD "babysit" DS while you take some time or yourself? (ie; do your nails, take a bath, scrapbook, etc)

    Unfortunately, it's not as much time by myself that I need. It's time with someone other than myself. Like an adult. lol I used to have friends. Not sure what happened with that.

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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member
    imageoh-zysbaby:

    imageWinsyWade:
    I know how you feel!  (((hugs)))  Tell Dh you need some time for yourself.  Can DD "babysit" DS while you take some time or yourself? (ie; do your nails, take a bath, scrapbook, etc)

    Unfortunately, it's not as much time by myself that I need. It's time with someone other than myself. Like an adult. lol I used to have friends. Not sure what happened with that.

    I understand this whole post and this.

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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
    imagegreenclown:

    I'd come babysit for you if I could.

    I take that back.  I'd find you a babysitter and take you out. 

    You know just what a girl needs.

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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member

    imageMysterious_wife:
    What is this crazy girl you are talking about?  OP or a link or something?

    no, I haven't even seen her recently, she's just the type that thinks that all moms should want is to be with their kids 24/7 and should never need a break. I've had a few exchanges with her before, because she's super judgey about it. 

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    imageoh-zysbaby:

    imageMysterious_wife:
    What is this crazy girl you are talking about?  OP or a link or something?

    no, I haven't even seen her recently, she's just the type that thinks that all moms should want is to be with their kids 24/7 and should never need a break. I've had a few exchanges with her before, because she's super judgey about it. 

    Hmm, I don't guess I have seen her or her post.

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  • danlexi04danlexi04

    Hair in a pony? Check

    Same sweats as yesterday? Check

    No make up? Check

    No other adults around to talk to/hang out with? Check

    I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!!

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  • idavisidavis
    I would be there in a heartbeat and have DH watch the kids and have us go out. I'm sorry you are feeling stuck and I know exactly how you feel and I was only home for 3 months. DH never understood why I would follow him around when he got home. I needed adult interaction after spending 8+ hours alone with S. It definitely didn't mean I loved her less, it's just hard to feel sane when you are talking to yourself all day.
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    imageoh-zysbaby:

    imagesulfababy:
    Sorry you are frustrated. :(  *hugs*

    Thank you. I know in the scheme of things my problems are very minor. 

    That doesn't mean your feelings are invalid.

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    imagesulfababy:
    imageoh-zysbaby:

    imagesulfababy:
    Sorry you are frustrated. :(  *hugs*

    Thank you. I know in the scheme of things my problems are very minor. 

    That doesn't mean your feelings are invalid.

    Can you have a chat with my DH? lol

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  • mrs.maybridemrs.maybride

    Whoa.  Who said you shouldn't want to go out?  I need to punch her in her nonexistent nuts.  She's an idiot, apparently. 

     

    I *DO* go out.  To work.  Every day.  But that is NOT AT ALL the same as going OUT and doing something for ME.  And going to the grocery store on Sunday night does not effing count as ME time.  

     

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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
    imagemrs.maybride:

    Whoa.  Who said you shouldn't want to go out?  I need to punch her in her nonexistent nuts.  She's an idiot, apparently. 

     

    I *DO* go out.  To work.  Every day.  But that is NOT AT ALL the same as going OUT and doing something for ME.  And going to the grocery store on Sunday night does not effing count as ME time.  

     

    Thank you! and AMEN! lol

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  • agdudley08agdudley08

    I'll send my DH over there to babysit for you.  He thinks this parenting thing will be so easy.  I am a nervous wreck(because I know how it is to take care of babies) all he has ever done is hold a baby for an hour.

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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
    imageagdudley08:

    I'll send my DH over there to babysit for you.  He thinks this parenting thing will be so easy.  I am a nervous wreck(because I know how it is to take care of babies) all he has ever done is hold a baby for an hour.

    Unfortunately, my baby won't do you any favors. He's pretty much an angel, and cute as hell. He's not hard to take care of at all. I have very little to complain about. 

    It's mostly being cooped up. It's winter, so it's rainy and cold. Anything that wouldn't be outside in the rain costs money, that we don't have.

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