Babies: 0 - 3 Months

failure to thrive

is what my doctor told me about DD.  She also said I am vitamin B deficient and once I start taking the shots my DD should start gaining weight rapidly.  So here I am thinking I am giving my baby the best by EBF when really I was depriving her of vitamins...I feel like the worst mother ever and have cried over this many times :(

Re: failure to thrive

  • my DS got diagnosed with this last year (he is 9 though) but i know how you feel, i have tried nutritionist and so many other things, and yet i feel like i've let him down by not providing what he needs to grow and thrive!, hopefully with the shots your DD will be ok. GL
    BFP #1 May 2000 ~ Darren was born Jan 13, 2001 ~ 6lbs 2oz 191/2" ~ 39 wks due to low fluid, otherwise perfect pregnancy
    July 2004 abnormal pap, colposcopy and LEEP procedure ~ paps every 3 months all normal for 1 year
    2006 all clear to start TTC
    HSG Nov 2007 ~ all normal except mild left tube blockage
    BFP #2 Dec 2007 EDD sept 3 ~ missed m/c ~ Feb 14 2008 ~ 9wk 2d D&C
    BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
    BFP #4 Jul 2008 EDD May 5 ~ missed m/c ~ Aug 2008 ~ 5wk 2d D&C - trisomy 16
    RPL panel Aug 2008 ~ diagnosed with compound hetero MTHFR
    BFP #5 Nov 2008 EDD Jul 31 ~ blighted Ovum ~ Dec 2008 ~ 4wk 3d ~ natural m/c at home for my birthday
    BFP #6 Feb 2009 EDD Oct 15 ~ 4wk 3d ~ chemical pregnancy ~ Mar 2008
    BFP #7 May 18 2009 ~ Gabriel Michael ~ Jan 19, 2010 ~ 7lbs 2oz 21"
    TTC again since Jan 2011
    BFP #8 Jun 2011 EDD Jan 20 ~ 5wk 6d ~ missed m/c ~ D&C
    July - Hysterscopy removed some polyps, all clear for IUI with clomid
    Aug-Oct - IUI - with Clomid all BFN
    Nov-Jan - IUI - with femara and trigger = BFN
    back to TTC naturally on our own hoping for another miracle.
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  • Please do not feel bad.  You are doing everything you can.  DS is going through something similar (he is diagnosed as "slow feeder" and has a hard time sucking). 

    Please don't beat yourself up about it.  Many women go through the same thing.  If you want to chat, let me know.

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  • imageOregonPachey:

    Please do not feel bad.  You are doing everything you can.  DS is going through something similar (he is diagnosed as "slow feeder" and has a hard time sucking). 

    Please don't beat yourself up about it.  Many women go through the same thing.  If you want to chat, let me know.

     

    I just sent you a message :)  Thanks for offering to chat :)

  • Please don't beat yourself up! I was failure to thrive way back when and I'm totally healthy. I was just a tiny baby. My mom told me she used to feel so helpless. But sone kids truly are just small. Keep your head up.
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