Pregnant after a Loss

f/u from 1st appt. T&P please

Yesterday we had a sac but no baby. The sac was measuring 5w1d instead of 5w6d. The doctor wasn't worried because he said that could be normal. He called this morning and now he is worried. My numbers were over 30,000. He said that is to high to not have seen anything. He tried to offer hope that the u/s just missed seeing the baby but he really didn't seem to hopeful. He is bringing me back in on Monday to look for the baby and check my numbers again. If we don't see the baby on Monday then he said something would have to be done to end the pregnancy.

I know it is a long shot but please pray that my LO is just a slow grower and will have a heartbeat on Monday. 

Re: f/u from 1st appt. T&P please

  • I really, really, really hope you get wonderful news on Monday! I'll be keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you, and I'm sending tons of Ts and Ps your way! (((hugs)))
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  • Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry your Dr is worrying you!  I will be praying for you and your LO!  I know this waiting game sucks, I've been in limbo for the past week and find out today (hopefully) what's going on.  I'll be praying you see that sweet little heartbeat on Monday!  (((HUGS)))
    BFP #1 - 2/1/09-mc 2/5/09 @4wks
    BFP #2 - 6/24/09-mc 7/25/09 @8wks
    6/09 Dx w/PCOS--Metformin & Progesterone
    8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
    BFP #3 - 1/11/10 - DD1 born 9/16/10 @39w4d, 8lbs 14oz & 20in.
    Heparin from BFP to 34wks.
    BFP #4 - 10/4/11 - DD2 born 6/2/12 @38w1d, 8lbs 11oz & 21in.
    Same med protocol as last time, but heparin continued until delivery.
    BFP #5 - 3/30/14, EDC 12/10/14!!

    Beta #1-76 (12dpo), Beta #2-238 (14dpo)
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  • OH no I am so sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out and on Monday everything looks good. T&P for you and LO.
    BFP #1: 10/17/08 EDD: 6/24/09-missed m/c; d&c on 12/8/08 BFP #2: 11/7/09 EDD: 7/15/10-Cabe born on 7/9/10 BFP #3: 10/7/11 EDD: 6/20/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Pregnancy Ticker A Butterfly lies beside us like a sunbeam and for a brief moment, its beauty and glory belong to our world. But then it flies on again. And though we wish it could have stayed we feel so lucky to have seen it. In loving memory of MrsTyson's precious Julia.
  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this. You are in my T&P's!
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  • You are definitely in my T&Ps.  I hope that everything will be just fine and your LO is just procrastinating.
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  • Thinking of you and your LO girl!
    BFP #1- 1/16/09- Baby Ava stillborn at 32 weeks, possible cord accident, 7/30/09
    BFP #2- 1/5/10- Baby Jack born at 37w2d, 6lbs 13 oz, 8/24/10
    BFP #3- 7/30/11- Baby Boy Due April 3, 2012
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  • (((hugs)))  Sending lots of healthy baby vibes.
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  • I hope your LO beats the odds!  T&P for Monday.
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  • I do not remember all of the specific numbers since this happened in August.  The same thing happened to me.  I went in because I was spotting and I had an ultrasound and I forget what the sac was measuring, but it was in the 5-6 week range.  The sac had a yolk sac in it but no fetal pole.  My doctor told me if my numbers came back <8000, he would be hopeful.  Well, my numbers came back around 18k.  He told me he was not hopeful because with my numbers we should have at least seen a fetal pole.  I had an ultrasound scheduled the week after and there was a little fetus with a heartbeat!  I was never so surprised in my entire life. 

    There is hope and I am praying you have the same outcome!

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  • I am so sorry you got such scary news from the dr.  I really, really, really hope that you have a great appt on Monday and everything turns out just fine.  My thoughts are definitely with you...
  • i'm sorry you have to stress over this. i really hope you get good news. even though i charted and knew when i o'ed, i was (and accordingly still am) measuring almost a week behind. and even though my betas were really high, we still couldn't see anything but the yoke and gest sacs.i had to go back for three u/s, and it wasn't until i was 8.5 weeks (measuring 7.5) that they could finally see a fetal pole and heartbeat.

    the only thing that gave me SOME hope throughout the u/s was seeing that there was some growth. for example, in the 6 week u/s, there was just a ges sac. in 7 weeks, there was a bigger ges sac and the begining of a yoke sac. so even though i was still measuring behind, the important thing was that there was growth. so even if you don't see a fetal pole and heartbeat on monday, i hope you see some growth, and i hope you and your dr are encouraged by that.

    sorry this was so long. i know how scary it is. huge hugs to you.

  • I hope you have good news on Monday!  Lots of T&P for you over the next few days!!
  • Hoping for great news on Monday.  Lots of T&Ps coming your way.
  • I'm so sorry you got discouraging news. I hope you get some good news on monday. T&P to you.
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  • T&Ps to you!  I hope you get to see your LO in the next u/s and everything is okay.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this! You and your LO are in my thoughts and prayers!

     

    Grow, little baby, grow!

     

    Proud Mama of 3 beautiful daughters and 1 amazing son - ages 8, 5, 3, and 1

    1st m/c - 1/12/07 at 5 weeks 50 mg Clomid - BFP 8/22/09, 2nd m/c - 8/24/09 at 5 weeks 50 mg Clomid - BFP!!!! 11/16/09 EDD: 7/29/10
    TEAGAN ELIZABETH BORN JULY 14, 2010! 6 LBS 13 OZ AND 20 INCHES!

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    50 mg Clomid - BFP!! 8/3/12, EDD: 4/14/13 Beta #1 at 11 DPO - 24. Spotting like crazy, OB thinks m/c #3 is imminent. Beta #2 at 21 DPO - 1,899!! u/s at 5 weeks 2 days showed a gestational sac measuring right on track! WOOHOO! PLEASE STICK, MY LITTLE MIRACLE!
    3/28/13 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRAYSON JOSEPH! born at 37 weeks 4 days, 7 lbs 13.8 oz and 20 inches!

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  • Oh no!  I hope the doctor is wrong about it not looking good!

    You will be in my prayers.  So sorry you are dealing with this.

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  • T&P, try to take care of yourself and I hope baby makes his debut next appt!!!
  • Sending T&P your way for a good ultrasound monday.
    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
  • I'm sorry, t and p for you.
  • Tons of thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • Oh, I know that can be so upsetting... please know that I'm thinking of you, and praying for good results on Monday.  Try to stay positive and relax...and if you need love and support, you know we're here for you!  Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way. 
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  • lots of thoughts and prayers that you see a healthy pregnancy on Monday!
  • I had an u/s last week at 5w4d because they were worried about multiples - my hcg was over 33k and we didn't see anything but an empty sac. I was completely worked up and convinced that something was wrong. Follow up u/s today revealed a healthy little singleton with a very strong heartbeat. Hang in there - the dates are more accurate than the hcg level.
  • I'll be praying hard for you.  Keep us posted and try to think good thoughts til Monday!
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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