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PR: I suck!

daniellems2003daniellems2003
in Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

I can't believe I am actually saying this out loud, but I really hope that when we go for our ultrasound on the 23rd, they tell us we are having another girl. I think I will even be disappointed if we have a boy. I am a horrible person for having a preference. I OF COURSE want a healthy baby no matter what the sex. But I really want a girl.

I.officially.suck!

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Re: PR: I suck!

  • Buckets of MoonbeamsBuckets of Moonbeams

    I suck then too.

     

    Except I don't really think I suck. :)

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  • daniellems2003daniellems2003

    I have even taken it to the next level! I am not telling anyone except MY parents, that we are going for the ultrasound because if its a boy I need a few days to digest the news before telling everyone. I know my inlaws (MIL really) will  be throwing it in my face we are having a boy, because she thinks I am over the top girly with DD and has said before "I needed a boy to calm me down with the pink and frills."

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  • Buckets of MoonbeamsBuckets of Moonbeams
    imagedaniellems2003:

    I have even taken it to the next level! I am not telling anyone except MY parents, that we are going for the ultrasound because if its a boy I need a few days to digest the news before telling everyone. I know my inlaws (MIL really) will  be throwing it in my face we are having a boy, because she thinks I am over the top girly with DD and has said before "I needed a boy to calm me down with the pink and frills."

    OMG, is your MIL secretly part of my H's family?  They all keep calling the new baby "Little Brother" and it drives me crazy.  I can understand you- I've thought about not finding out this baby's gender so I can fall in love with the baby first and hear "it's a boy" (if it is) second.

    Honestly, I don't care if I ever have a son.  In fact, I would actually rather have 3 little girls.  That doesn't mean I won't/wouldn't love a son just as much, of course, it would just be something that would take me some time to adjust to.

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  • auslyn804auslyn804
    I had my mind set on having a girl this time.  I had tried convincing myself that I'd be happy with a boy but didn't know if I believed it.  Our big u/s was scheduled for Dec1st and everyone knew it.  I paid for an u/s weeks earlier so that I could do it without everyone knowing, I didn't know how I would react.  I was so afraid of the comments of "another boy! how exciting, but I'm sure you wanted a girl this time"  It pains me now to even write this because I felt so bad about it.  I know I would have loved the baby either way, but I still felt/feel awful about the feelings I had.   
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  • daniellems2003daniellems2003

    Haha! OMG I could have written your post. We have the same MIL. And I honestly would love to just have girls. NOT that I wouldn't love a son, but I just love having a little girl.

    And I think I secretly want another girl as well to PISS OFF MIL! She will absolutely hate the fact she'll have two granddaughters, so the more girls the merrier :)))

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  • Buckets of MoonbeamsBuckets of Moonbeams
    imagedaniellems2003:

    Haha! OMG I could have written your post. We have the same MIL. And I honestly would love to just have girls. NOT that I wouldn't love a son, but I just love having a little girl.

    And I think I secretly want another girl as well to PISS OFF MIL! She will absolutely hate the fact she'll have two granddaughters, so the more girls the merrier :)))

    YES!

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