Any pregnant ladies out there have "WTF did I do?" moments?

Echowysp · February 2010

We wanted to get pregnant and while I'm happy, I have this feeling of OMG, what did we get ourselves into at times (ok, some days a lot).

With ds being sick all winter long, having horrible sleep and work draining me, I can't help but wonder how things are going to be.

//fear rant

KeepingItLowKey · February 2010

every day. I just wonder why we decided to make our life so much more difficult!

Mama Jan · February 2010

Oh I totally remember those moments....

TMs1stBaby · February 2010

every.single.day Tongue Tied

But, I am sure it will all work out in the end.

olivejuice127 · February 2010

I think everyone has these moments at one point or another, but I think you just have to stop yourself and realize there is nothing you can do about it now. Heehee.

mlf625 · February 2010

Yes. Usually when DS is having a meltdown, the house is trashed, and I haven't eaten since morning ... those times, I think 'WTMF am I doing?'

Too late now. ::eek::

annamie · February 2010

I always go back to this: We're getting it out of the way all at once. We aren't waiting 5 years and starting over.

This helps DH and I get through those moments. But, honestly, I feel as though I haven't had time to get freaked out.

Vrbka · February 2010

hahha daily hourly

don't get me wrong i LOVE them!

ash2 · February 2010

I constantly worry about it. But I know it will work out. I mean, it has to. I have no choice, haha.

daniellems2003 · February 2010

Oh dear, I could have written this! Every day I wonder why in the world we did this and HOW I could have ever missed being pregnant because I absolutely hate every second of this 24.hr nausea!

Hope it gets better for us both It will all work out in the end, I know it and we will forget we ever felt like this!

Mama Jan · February 2010

annamie:
I always go back to this: We're getting it out of the way all at once. We aren't waiting 5 years and starting over.

Ha! Then there's those of us who are doing both!! "Getting it out of the way" and then starting over in 4 years to do the whole thing (2u2) all over again... WTF am I thinking??

SammyluvsJ · February 2010

At least once a day I think this

kmc217 · February 2010

Sure do. Especially on days like today when DD is a whining, crying, clingy monster who won't nap or play or let me pee-- I wonder why in the world I thought two whining, crying, clinging monsters would be even more fun than one!

Mrs.tlcS · February 2010

I still have those moments. I doubt they'll go away for good anytime soon.

BUT, the good days outnumber the bad days. You'll pull through just fine! Smile

Ciconrad · February 2010

The whole house has been passing colds/sinus infections around to one another for 2+ weeks. We can't seem to get healthy. DS isn't sleeping well becase he's so congested. We've been to the pedi 4 times in 2 weeks and spent well over $200 between visits and meds. I just keep thinking "Oh crap, next year, I will have two kids passing this crap back and forth, up all night and going to the pedi and needing antibiotics and prescription diaper rash cream"

MEJ2008 · February 2010

It comes and goes. I know a lot will change, but I just keep telling myself that we'll adjust fine.

peapine · February 2010

sometimes yes. Especially since I am a full-time working mom and have zero energy left as it is. However, this pregnancy took us by surprise in such a joyous way and we know its meant to be. Now, I look forward to DD helping me out a little bit with DC#2 and the fun they will have together - instead of having me and DH be the sole entertainers. It will be awesome!

lite-bright · February 2010

Yup. Especially when I have a rough night and don't sleep well b/c I'm uncomfortable, and I'm dragging the next day with DD -- and then I think, "OMG, this is going to be so much worse with a newborn. WTH were we thinking??!?!"

And then I wonder if I'll secretly always love DD1 best, and wonder how I'm going to keep my sanity being a SAHM to two, whether I'll ever get a minute to myself, how much more complicated getting out of the house is going to be with a toddler and infant ...

Yeah, I just try not to think about those things too much. I figure, there's no going back now, so we'll figure it out, right?

Swim_Momma · February 2010

annamie:

I always go back to this: We're getting it out of the way all at once. We aren't waiting 5 years and starting over.

This helps DH and I get through those moments. But, honestly, I feel as though I haven't had time to get freaked out.

This. I want to be through the baby stage. I love it, but I love 12-18 months so much more. Not wishing time away, but I would rather be younger during the tough times.