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I know something that will get you guys nice and riled up (Long.)

I debated posting about this a few days ago because of what it's about, but I'm still fuming about it.

A girl I used to be best friends with (for 8 years prior) was supposed to be my MOH. Well, her boyfriend is my (now) best friend and he and I were close before she started dating him. The day we go to pick out BM dresses, she yells at me, in front of Davids Bridal. Needless to say, she was out of the wedding.

Over the next 2 years I only saw her when she had a "life crisis" (aka, boy) and when she needed something. She has never seen my son, never came to see me when he was in the NICU and didn't come to my shower.

She texted me a few nights ago: "Hey, I didn't know who to ask. Do you know how much an abortion costs?"

I told her to fvck off and seek help. Last I knew, she was dating her boss at Lowes, dropped out of school because of drama from her break up with Josh (my best friend) and he was trying to get her pregnant but she took her pill in secret. She's a fvcking screw up.

Wow that feels good to vent about. 

 

Oh, she never responded to my text. I wanted to get on FB and ask her if she ever got the abortion she needed (publicly on her page) but I don't think I could find that much meanness in me. 

 

 

If this starts a debate at all or arguments....I'll take it down....TIA 

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Re: I know something that will get you guys nice and riled up (Long.)

  • I would be so pissed if someone asked me this.
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  • That would have pissed me off, too. You don't ask that question to someone you haven't spoken to in two years. Not to mention you have reason to be sensitive about that type of question. I think your response to her was completely warranted. She sounds like a poop stick to me!

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  • imagecaliforniastars:
    I would be so pissed if someone asked me this.

    This. She can't find anyone else to ask? How about fvcking Google?

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  • imagecaliforniastars:
    I would be so pissed if someone asked me this.

    Yup, and I would promptly post it on FB

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  • That would really piss me off if someone asked me that. What a piece of work!
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    imagecaliforniastars:
    I would be so pissed if someone asked me this.

    This. She can't find anyone else to ask? How about fvcking Google?

    Exactly! There had to be plenty of other ways to get this info. What a b!tch.?

  • What an evil wench. How have you not cut her out of your life completely?
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