Babies on the Brain

I have to get something off MY chest.

If I never hear the name "Duggar" again, it will be too soon.

I know their situation has nothing to do with mine, and I hope their daughter has a long, healthy life, but I still wish they'd disappear from the public eye.  I want to be able to turn on the TV, go to a website, or open a magazine and not worry about seeing a commercial or picture with Michelle Duggar holding her daughter the same way I held mine as she died.  

Their baby was born the day after Jillian died, and I'll never be able to stop wondering why she's made it this far and mine didn't.

JHL 12/5/09 - 12/9/09
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Re: I have to get something off MY chest.

  • You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

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  • I can't imagine how hard it is.  I'm so sorry. 

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  • *hugs*

    You have every right in the world to feel that way and I absolutely agree with you.  It's hard hearing about it when you know people who are kind and wonderful that lost their babes.

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    I can't even begin to imagine the pain you feel.  I am sure I would feel the same way. 

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  • i'm so sorry GC.  ((big hugs))

    I can't even imagine what you're going through.  I imagine I would feel the exact same way.

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  • I am so sorry

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  • I'm so very sorry GC.
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    You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

    I didn't watch it, but this is exactly how I feel about what you said.

  • I was thinking the same thing as Isha.  It's just not fair.

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  • I'm so sorry GC. 
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    You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

    I didn't watch, but I totally agree with everything else above.

    ::hugs::

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  • I am so sorry, hon. I share your feelings on this one, absolutly.
  • GC, I think of you whenever I hear about their baby being born prematurely. Life is really unfair. I know they didn't take your baby, but with the million babies they already have, it just feels so wrong and unfair.
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    imageAuntIsha:

    You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

    I didn't watch it, but this is exactly how I feel about what you said.

    I didn't watch it either (because I have issues with the Duggars) but this is how I feel about their situation, too.  It isn't fair.

     

    ((hugs))

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  • imageAuntIsha:

    You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

    Agreed. I felt really guilty thinking it, but I was totally there with you.

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  • Big hugs, GC.
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    imageAuntIsha:

    You girls were all I was thinking when I tried to watch it. I felt like such a terrible person, but I kept thinking: She has 18 others. Why couldn't one of my friends keep their baby instead? It was really hard for me, so I can't imagine how you must feel.

    *big hugs* I'm so sorry.

    Agreed. I felt really guilty thinking it, but I was totally there with you.

    This was me too!  I felt so guilty thinking it! 

     

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  • I'm so so so sorry GC, I can't even imagine how hard this has been for you. I continue to pray for you, as well as all the other mothers, who have lost their babies. It's such a tragedy, and I wish it would never happen.
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