TTC After a Loss

I couldn't wait until tomorrow to test (BFP mentioned)

I planned on testing on the first but yesterday I broke down. I'd been having signs of AF but they were different so I bought a 2 pack of digitals. I was nervous, didn't want to see a "not pregnant", felt like it could rip my heart out. Waited until the afternoon yesterday and saw the word I wanted to see. DH and I are still digesting. We are a mixed bag of joy, fear, over the moon, happy, nervous, surprised, elated, concerned, blessed, hesitant and amazed!

I was hesitant to post this, I guess I feel for every one on here and know that when I see BFP posts, I am so happy for the poster but then feel sad for myself. This board runs the whole spectrum of emotion and I don't EVER want to make anyone feel bad. But I have found support here in times of need and want to share my joy, too. Not sure I am running off to first tri., I feel more comfortable here. Hope that's ok.

So there it is, my bfp. A previous loss sure does change things, though. This is MUCH different from my first rose colored glasses experience. Oh, and you ladies are ALL I am telling. This is just for DH and I for now. 

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Re: I couldn't wait until tomorrow to test (BFP mentioned)

  • Congratulations!!

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • Wonderful news.  Congrats!
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
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    Lilah Eve---our angel in heaven: Born sleeping 12/2/09 @ 28w3d. We love you and miss you everyday, little angel.
    Isabella Faith---Born 12/17/10 via c-section.
    Abigail Marie---Born 11/16/12 via c-section
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  • Congrats! I love hearing about BFP's and success stories!
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  • Congratulations!!!
    *~*Mommy to*~*
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    BFP#1 Kaitlyn 11-17-04
    BFP #2 Matthew pPROM 23w5d 06-03-07, b/33 weeks 8-6-07, d/10-15-07 SIDS,
    BFP #3 m/c 8 weeks 2/20/09, BFP #4 m/c no hb 6w4d, m/c 9w4d, D&C 11w2d, BFP #5 C/P 12/18/09 after BFP- 9dpo
    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
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  • congrats! 

    don't feel weird about sharing - As I'm still pretty much a newbie here, I need to hear the encouraging stories, and feel like there is life and BFPs after m/c! Thank you for sharing yours...

  • Congrats!!

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Congratulations!!! I understand not going over to 1st trimester, I think most of us feel that way! Don't forget about the pregnancy after loss board, I think that's where most people go after here and they are very supportive too!
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    diagnosed with heterozygous Factor V Leiden 2008; m/c 11/09 @ 5 1/2 wks; m/c 5/10 @ 4 1/2 wks; RLP testing done, diagnosed with antiphospholipid syn. and low progesterone; 7/10 started on Heparin injections & progesterone supps @ 3 dpo, BFP 8/9/10!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFetus Ticker
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    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
  • Thank you all! I will check out pgAL. Probably toggle between here and there. It still hasn't sunk in, probably won't for a while...
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  • Congrats!!
    BFP #1: MC at 6w2d 11/24/09 BFP #2: 4/8/10-DD born 12/15/10 BFP #3: MC/CP? 2/5/12 ~4w BFP #4: Eptopic-Laparoscopy & D&C 4/16/12 ~6w BFP #5: 6/19/12 Due 3/5/13 Pregnancy Ticker
  • Congratualtions!!  How exciting!!  I completly understand why you are only sharing this AWESOME news with us, I plan on doing the same when I get my BFP!!  Enjoy, relax, and stay here for as long as you need to :)
  • Congrats.
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  • Congrats & H&H 9 months to you!
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • Congrats to you!! I love hearing about BFP, especially to ladies that our on our February tester badge. I wish you a healthy and happy 9 months!!

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  • Congratulations!  I love seeing BFP posts, it gives me hope!  Good luck.
    "Fondly do we hope, fervently do we pray." 12/09: 5 weeks, natural miscarriage 3/10: 7 weeks, natural miscarriage 6/11: BFP! 7/11: we have a heartbeat! BabyFruit Ticker
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    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • Congrats!! I love BFP news because it gives me hope for my future.
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  • congratulations. h&h 9 months to you!
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    For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 Natural MC @ 7wks 6days Missed MC @ 7wks 6days, baby measured 6wks 3days
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  • Congrats! H&H 9 months!
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    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • Thanks so much! DH and I went out to breakfast and it was great coming back and seeing all the congrats and support, thank you. And good luck to the rest on the Feb. testing badge!!! Fingers crossed.
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  • I had my m/c 2 days before yours and now you are giving me hope that we can move on and have success! Thanks for posting it here! H&H 9 months to you!
  • Congratulations!

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  • Congrats!!

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • congratulations!!  H&H 9 months to you
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