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I understand now

andrea zandrea z
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I just feel so bad for Mrs Tyson and her family. I remember that pain so well... I just want to go give her a hug. I wish there was something we could do to make it all better. Now I finally understand how everyone else felt when we lost our boys. I was so focused on my pain I never even thought about how everyone else felt. It really is a feeling of wanting to make things all better, but not being able to. I never put myself into their position. I feel a little guilty for some of my comments when I lost the boys now. I understand what those people were feeling now, and understand that they were trying to help. I am sure this doesn't make a ton of sense, but I finally get how my family and friends felt now. Anyone else have this realization?
IVF cycle 1-BPF!
9/13/09-Twin boys born at 23 weeks due to Pprom.
Ethan and Jacob-our beautiful angel babies lived for 11 minutes and 23 hours.
Single embryo FET 12/2009-BFP! Blake born 8/2010 at 39 weeks after 36 hours of labor and an emergency c section < IVF 2- BPF! Due April 27th Our Story
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Re: I understand now

  • sweetbossom83sweetbossom83
    Yeah, It is like you want to do or say what ever you can so badly to make the pain go away.. so you try.. but it really does not help and that makes you feel even worse.. I know what you mean.. It is so terrible. It is hard to feel helpless, or like you can't help someone you care about...
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  • megjr8megjr8 member
    Things are always different on the flip side. I understand.
    In memory of precious Julia, sweet baby James, and now Timmy who fought so hard.


    Natural miscarriage - April 2009 ~ We love you, 'Blueberry'
    Lydia, born July 12, 2010
    Labor buddy to Kelly0615
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