I'm starting to think Sara hasn't crawl because of me, I know they are all different and we can't push them to do things BUT she is VERY active, like non-stop active but she doesn't crawl yet, why do I say it could be my fault?
well I put her down on her foam mat at most from 1 to 1:30 hours a day (some days she doesn't even get "floor time"), I don't put her right on the floor because I'm afraid she could hurt herself and she's mostly playing on our bed (one of us is always there w/her) and she does crawl on the bed, I'm afraid she could hurt herself on the floor because when she crawls on the bed many times she pushes herself with her forehead I don't think it would be safe if she did this on the hardwood or tile floor!
when she wants to reach for something on the foam mat she kinda army crawls but if it is too far away o she gets tired she'll just burst into tears!
WDYT? is it my fault? should she get more floor time to get used to it? am I a bad mommy?
also! right now it's pretty cold and even with the heater on our floors are chilly!! (the foam mat isn't)
should I just stop being so paranoid and let her be???
sorry I tend to ramble..
Re: how much "floor time" does your LO get per day?
All babies develop at different rates so I wouldn't say it's your fault that she isn't crawling, she may just not be ready yet.
I would say you are being a little paranoid with not allowing her to play on the floor. Babies are going to get bumps and bruises while they explore their surrounding, that's just life. If you aren't comfortable with putting her directly on the floor, put her on some foam mats and lay a few pillows around in case she falls to one side. My DD crawls on our hardwood, tile, etc and she hasn't had any major injuries from it.
Not much. She hates tummy time after a few minutes and having DS running around like a mad man and running the risk of tripping/stepping on her. No thanks.
DS hated tummy time too. He did it more than I do with DD but he turned out fine. So far
My ds was on the floor a lot and he didn't crawl till he was 8 mo. they crawl when they're ready. Babies are going to get bumps and bruises, this morning ds slipped crawling on a hard floor, bumped his face and cut his lip open on his tooth, it happens, he cried for about 30 seconds and then was fine.
thanks for your responses girls, I will try to be less paranoid and put her down a (little bit) more
I just don't want my tiny precious baby to ever get hurt!!! LOL
I hope this over protective thing doesn't last too long!
I'm sure she'll crawl when she's nice and ready.
Having said that, I can't imagine anything other than floor time, even a few months ago. I'm not at all being snarky, but what are your LOs doing otherwise? I couldn't keep Wes in anything pretty much after 6 months. We spend all of our day on the floor, except for walks in the Ergo, food time in the high chair or travel time in the car. To be honest, it's quite exhausting.
my DS is on the floor for half of the day. I only pick him up if he cries. He love to play with his toys, and he really enjoys tummy time now too. and we're practicing sitting up.
he still "swims" when he wants to crawl (kicks his legs a ton and "paddles" his arms), and he occasionally scoots, but he's no where near crawling!
Depends on the day, but Ben is on the floor often. All kinds of floor--hardwood, tile, carpet, and we have a dog, too (not sure why that would matter...hair? My kids are constantly covered in golden retriever hair. Not much I can do about that!). Some days we are on the go a lot because of my older daughter and he's being held/carried.
She is still very young to be "worried" about crawling. My DD crawled at 10.5 months. Ben will be 10 months on Thursday and he's not crawling. They are preprogrammed to do stuff like crawling when they are ready--you have very little control as a mom over when that happens!
Put her on the floor, though. She can't get THAT hurt, and bumps and bruises are part of life. What are you going to do when she starts walking? Not let her explore the playground because she might fall? Helicopter parents are super annoying and stunt their kid's ability to play, explore, learn and make mistakes--don't become one!
I'm curious as to what your LO's are doing all day if they aren't on the floor?
C looooves being on the floor, crawling, exploring and playing with her toys. She is there the majority of the day, unless I'm holding/nursing her or she's in her high chair, she is usually playing on the floor. She will tolerate her exersaucer sometimes, but she doesn't like being confined to it too much.