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DH: "Could you be pregnant?"

howleyshellhowleyshell member
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Not kidding.

I had a bad round of nausea last night - completely different from m/s - just generic "I'm gonna puke."

His response:  "Could you be pregnant?"  100% serious.

You're kidding me, right?

I had a D&C a week ago yesterday and you haven't touched me since then so you KNOW I'm not newly pregnant.

He's damned lucky I didn't smack him. 

He knows more about how conception works than most men do simply from having to listen to me ramble and obsess for 5 years now. 

 

I guess all the stuff we've been thru lately has whacked him out in his own way. 

Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • madhatter2003madhatter2003
    He is very lucky you didn't smack him
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  • TakYelgifTakYelgif
    Angry The husband says dumb stuff like that from time to time.  Hope your feeling better this morning.
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  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    imagemadhatter2003:
    He is very lucky you didn't smack him

    I seriously had a moment where I thought about peeing on a stick and taking it to him because it's probably still positive after the D&C.

    Then I realized that would be cruel.  

    It's been a complicated rough ride lately so I decided to cut him some slack. 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • BoxTerBoxTer
    Sounds like he was speaking before thinking. I'm sorry  you guys have been going through so much lately.
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  • NYGrlAtHeartNYGrlAtHeart
    Men just don't think before they speak but I know I would have wanted to smack my DH too! Hang in there!
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  • charmcitygirlcharmcitygirl member
    If looks could kill, your hubby would be a dead man.
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  • roaringrockroaringrock
    I was surprised when I read this and then I remembered you are married to a... 'MAN!' good grief. they're truly a different breed.
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  • CourtedCourted

    That probably would have made me cry!  But maybe it was wishful thinking on his part?

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  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    imageroaringrock:
    I was surprised when I read this and then I remembered you are married to a... 'MAN!' good grief. they're truly a different breed.

    And God help me I'm surrounded by them.

    I'm wayyyy outnumbered.

    I think I need a girls nite out. 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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  • talentedgirltalentedgirl

    I am trying to find sensitivity training to send my H on. I'll see if we can get a 2 for 1 deal. The things that man says when he is tired or doesn't think before opening his mouth may just be the end of him.

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