Hi Im usually over at the knot, but I decided to make some new friends over here too. My name is Desiray and my husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have a 3yr son. We didnt have a ceremony when we got married, so that's what we are planning to do for our 5th year annivarsary. I've been tracking my cycle for the last year and it ALWAYS comes on time, it's never late. Except for this month... I should have gotten it 2 days ago. I know it's too soon to know for sure yet, but I know my body and this isnt normal. I've been trying to get pregnant since Jan 09. I am hoping to get to know some great new people and enjoy fun people to talk to. Thanks for reading.
Re: newbie... might be pregnant
So when will it be okay for you to test if it's too early now?
Most pregnancy tests are accurate from the day of your missed period. So it's not too early to test...that is, if you really are NEVER late, which is rare on these boards...if not impossible!
Good luck with your wedding and ttc!
What do you mean by "tracking"? Actually charting your BBT. Even if so, it doesn't mean your cycle will be the same every month. If AF truly is late, you would be able to get a +HPT at this point if you truly are pregnant.
Info for the newbies - repost
All the info you'll ever need about POAS
By tracking, do you mean charting your temps each day or just counting the days on a calender? If it's the latter, you may have just ovulated later this cycle.
Good luck, though !
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
Go take a pregnancy test. If it comes back negative then you may have O'd later this cycle then you have before. Cycles can vary in lenght even for women who normally have regular cycles. Wait for a week and if you still haven't gotten your period test again. If your cycle lasts for more then 60 days with no period or positive pregnancy test go see your doctor.
On a side note: If you have been trying for a year (which you have) and you haven't had a talk with you doctor about the fact that you aren't pregnant yet then you need to.
Welcome and best of luck!
That's all I can handle right now.
Carina 12.28.2010 | Aurelia 9.23.12 | Chart - Round 3
People got confused between Tues. and Thurs. They both start with T you know.
after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
IT'S A GIRL!
#2 EDD 2/5/13 dx with anti-BIG E antibody, seeing a MFM
I don't take one single minute for granted.
::whistles and sings::
Just another day in the neighborhood...
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
SAIF Always Welcome
Diagnosed with PCOS: 10/03, On BCP to "treat" until: 7/09
Provera to end Cycles 1-9 (anovulatory)
Cycle #4 & 5: Clomid 50 mg FAIL
RE Visit: 2000 mg Metformin
Cycle 6:Forced Break, looking for androgen secreting tumor
Cycle 7:Clomid CD 3-10, 12-17 FAIL
Cycle 8: Clomid CD 3-10, Bravelle CD 12-24 Hyperstimmed
New RE: Put on Byetta, lost 23 lbs
Cycle 9: Financial Break
Cycle 10: Femara CD 3-7, IUI CD 17 BFP on 2/14/11, m/c 3/7/11
Please please please take DaniLovesPink's advice if it turns out you are not pregnant. Please.
If it turns out you are, please head on over to 1st tri. It would be best.
this. If you're "late" (which you actually don't know unless you know when you ovulated) than it's not too soon to take a test. Good luck.
Yes it is...
BFP #1 2-8-09 Natural M/C 6w1d 2-19-09
BFP #2 5-28-09 C/P 6-1-09
BFP #3 10-30-10 Natural M/C 12-8-10
BFP #4 1-16-12 EDD 9-18-12 Stick baby stick!!
Since you are here and CarBuck isn't, does that mean she got banned? That would make my day.
Wow.
and I second the :::headdesk:::
Me: 32 DH: 31
TTC #1: January 2008
Surprise BFP: November 2009
CP: September 2016
YES! She is banned
Deactivated User Account
There is justice in the world, even if it is temporary.
I ovulated from the 12th -15th this month... Yes I've been keeping a calendar of when I get my period. I don't know what "head desk" means... Im guessing slamming head on desk, sorry if I posted on the wrong board, I wasnt trying to make people upset. Thanks anyway
Make a pregnancy ticker
I've been away on a business trip, I missed this! What did Carbuck do??
Carina 12.28.2010 | Aurelia 9.23.12 | Chart - Round 3
You only ovulate on one day of your cycle, not 4. If you are using an ovulation calendar, you should know that they are useless. They are based on a 28 day cycle with day 14 ovulation. You may very well be ovulating well outside the time frame they give you. Scroll back to Dani's (I think) response and read the link she gave you - it has a lot of helpful information so you can learn more about your cycle.
I don't either. I see no misery in this post - only suggestions that OP take a test and learn more about how her cycle works. Sounds pretty helpful and positive to me.
Edit to say mostly helpful.
She came back, that was the biggest offense. Dani posted a 'nugget' that kind of out of control and at the tail end, CarBuck arrived being her pleasant self. Then she started another thread soon after directed at Mixie. This AE is most likely her as well.
Please...for our sanity...just go test and if it's negative we'll fill you in on some things to keep in mind while trying to get pregnant.
Good luck