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Have you been in an "altercation" in your adult life?

kit443kit443 member
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Not necessarily physical - could be a verbal yelling match.

p.s. I am not talking about some beeotch in high school that talked smack about your hair style behind your back. I am talking about something that has happened once your prefrontal cortex was developed enough for you to know that it is generally frowned upon to yell at strangers.

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Re: Have you been in an "altercation" in your adult life?

  • elyseloweelyselowe
    Nope.

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  • Future Mrs.GrabowskiFuture Mrs.Grabowski member
    Yup...2 good friends were dating for a long time and broke it off...we all were still friends with J(guy) who we were friends with anyway but C(girl) went BSC and accused a bunch of us of sleeping with J. We all went out to a bar one night and she just so happen to apparently think it was a great idea to come to the same bar that night. We left about 45 min after she walked in but not only did she try to jump through the window of my friends car to get to J her friends that she now hun out with were yelling at us in the parking lot telling us to get out and we weren't welcome again (like they owned the place). My BFF is not the quiet type and was screaming back along with several other friends. I had gotten out of my car to ask my BFF how to get back home as I wasn't sure the way and C's friend started telling me I had better get back in my car...yeah no, that started a whole crap load of stuff from me as I don't tend to be quiet either.....needless to say due to C jumping into the car and trying to attack J and her friends threating us BFF threatened to call the cops, guess that was enough because they shut up and walked away
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  • kit443kit443 member
    I was involved in an incident at a dog park once. This little dog kept acting all tough to one of my dogs - charging and biting. It all seemed okay then all of a sudden the little jerk ran at my dog (60 lb border collie mix) in attack mode. My dog attacked back. Problem was my dog was a bit bigger. Anyways, it looked like my dog was trying to kill her little dog (the little dog was totally fine after all this). The owner freaked out and started cussing out my husband. We are talking all up in his face. I come from the school that you don't let any b!tch get in your mans face, so I stepped in the middle. Things got a bit heated - okay, extremely heated. She pushed me and that is when I realized that we were way too old to be acting like children. So I walked away.  Not really something I am proud of, but that lady was BSC.
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  • mavilabridemavilabride member

    Yup

    Date: December 20, 2009

    Location: Food court at a Mall

    Need I say more?

    LOL.  This lady cursed me out because she wanted one of our chairs but I told her we were using it (I was holding the seats while FI and my brother got food).  She called me an idiot and started yelling at me for taking the chairs.  I was like WTFudge? but remained calm since I had DD with me.  FI came and told her to sit down and shut up which she did. 

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  • kit443kit443 member
    imagemavilabride:

    Yup

    Date: December 20, 2009

    Location: Food court at a Mall

    Need I say more?

    LOL.  This lady cursed me out because she wanted one of our chairs but I told her we were using it (I was holding the seats while FI and my brother got food).  She called me an idiot and started yelling at me for taking the chairs.  I was like WTFudge? but remained calm since I had DD with me.  FI came and told her to sit down and shut up which she did. 

    Oh helz no! She yelled at you when you had a baby! 

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  • ChrysallysChrysallys member

    Many times. My favorites:

    -Yelling at an asswipe who threw a rock at a freshly dead black cat in South Central LA (I'm glad I didnt get shot for that one),

    -Yelling at a pervy, high dude who was trying to hit on my BFF (I made him cry),

    -And yelling and getting up in the face of some drunk English dude in Oxford England after he swore at me (I scared him so bad he freaking ran away- that is my pride and agro joy).

    If confronted I can get scary.

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  • kit443kit443 member
    imageChrysallys:

    Many times. My favorites:

    -Yelling at an asswipe who threw a rock at a freshly dead black cat in South Central LA (I'm glad I didnt get shot for that one),

    -Yelling at a pervy, high dude who was trying to hit on my BFF (I made him cry),

    -And yelling and getting up in the face of some drunk English dude in Oxford England after he swore at me (I scared him so bad he freaking ran away- that is my pride and agro joy).

    If confronted I can get scary.


    LOL at making some dude cry


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  • srex_eesrex_ee

    I told the sales clerk at the local Zellers that they really needed to check their signage for their sale items after she told me, while at the cash, that the sleepers I had picked up were made of two different materials and they weren't both on sale even though they were both on the same sale rack..(??!!)  I told DH I was leaving, and I left.  He stayed at the cash while she figured it out..which led to another thing..but yeah

    and then last week I was on the phone with Storkcrap..I mean Storkcraft.  I was on hold for 20 minutes, so I had it on speaker because one cannot expect their 8 month old to entertain themselves that long, and the ladythat finally picked up was speaking with an accent.  I didn't catch what she had said so I asked her to repeat it.  She. replied. like. this.  So I told her that she had no need to be rude.  She said she wasn't, and I said, "uh actually, yeah you were.  This is my third issue with this crib, I haven't had it a year yet, and I would like some service.".or something like that.

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  • ChrysallysChrysallys member
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    I told the sales clerk at the local Zellers that they really needed to check their signage for their sale items after she told me, while at the cash, that the sleepers I had picked up were made of two different materials and they weren't both on sale even though they were both on the same sale rack..(??!!)  I told DH I was leaving, and I left.  He stayed at the cash while she figured it out..which led to another thing..but yeah

    Dude, Zellers is a mess with their sales. They never take their sale placards down when they should and confuse people.

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  • 1SwtWld1SwtWld member
    Almost.  I was at a red light and the woman had her right turn signal on.  The lane was clear.  Forever.  She wouldn't turn and you can clearly turn right on red.  I honked at her.  She got out of her car and started yelling at me.  If I didn't have DD in the car I would have gotten out too, but instead I just flicked her off and pointed to the sign that said you could turn (weirdly enough, there was one there--we were in a shopping center and trying to turn onto the main road). 
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  • kada626kada626 member

    I got into it pretty good with some guy at home depot. My mom was talking to the store mgr about a price mistake. I was about 20 feet away from her just waiting. Some guy came up to my mom, called her a bi!ch, and threw $20 at her and said she was holding up the line (she wasn't even in the line). 

    I pretty much was in the guy's face in one second flat. I was enraged & was trying everything to get him to throw the first punch.  I think he was in shock because he probably thought my mom was alone. His wife, I think,  was pretty nervous too because she was pulling him back.

    Not only did I yell at him, I also had some words with the mgr for not steping in. Who stands by and lets a 50+ yr old, 5 foot woman get treated like that. The guy end up apologizing and I told him I would be waiting outside. lol.He probably thought I was going to kill him.

     

     

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  • Mrs.C042807Mrs.C042807 member

    I got into one with a pushy energy sales guy who wouldn't leave my front porch.  He kept insisting on seeing my bill, blah blah blah. I told him numerous times I wasn't getting my bill, I had a baby inside, we weren't interested etc.  He had the balls to say "you go get your bill, I'll wait here." 

    Yeah, that didn't go over well.  After I told him I wasn't getting my bill for the 5th time, I told him to be on his merry way and shooed him off my porch, complete with not so nice hand gesture.

    He was so not impressed that some SAHM wasn't able to be persuaded to hand over her energy bill for his perusal.

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  • LoveEeyoreLoveEeyore member
    Mine involved alcohol and money!  I was at a bar and throwing for $50 and another regular who had nothing to do with the game kept getting in my line of vision before each shot, offering innuendos and favors, and I asked him if he'd like to lose an eye with a dart or for me to kick is ass and he asked me to lick it so I basically got in his face and barked at him asking him to say it again and as he backed away from me he neared the back door I shoved him out of it, he did a backward roll and skipped off.  I'd never been aggressive before!  The bar owner went and picked him up in his car and drove him home so he didn't get a DIP, LOL!  I think I paid his tab- I felt awful!
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