Trying to Get Pregnant

newbie... might be pregnant

Hi Im usually over at the knot, but I decided to make some new friends over here too. My name is Desiray and my husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have a 3yr son. We didnt have a ceremony when we got married, so that's what we are planning to do for our 5th year annivarsary. I've been tracking my cycle for the last year and it ALWAYS comes on time, it's never late. Except for this month... I should have gotten it 2 days ago. I know it's too soon to know for sure yet, but I know my body and this isnt normal. I've been trying to get pregnant since Jan 09. I am hoping to get to know some great new people and enjoy fun people to talk to. Thanks for reading.

 

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Re: newbie... might be pregnant

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  • So when will it be okay for you to test if it's too early now?

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  • Most pregnancy tests are accurate from the day of your missed period. So it's not too early to test...that is, if you really are NEVER late, which is rare on these boards...if not impossible!

    Good luck with your wedding and ttc!

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  • What do you mean by "tracking"?  Actually charting your BBT.  Even if so, it doesn't mean your cycle will be the same every month.  If AF truly is late, you would be able to get a +HPT at this point if you truly are pregnant.

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  • By tracking, do you mean charting your temps each day or just counting the days on a calender? If it's the latter, you may have just ovulated later this cycle.

    Good luck, though !



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  • Go take a pregnancy test. If it comes back negative then you may have O'd later this cycle then you have before. Cycles can vary in lenght even for women who normally have regular cycles. Wait for a week and if you still haven't gotten your period test again. If your cycle lasts for more then 60 days with no period or positive pregnancy test go see your doctor.

    On a side note: If you have been trying for a year (which you have) and you haven't had a talk with you doctor about the fact that you aren't pregnant yet then you need to.

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  • Good luck.  1st tri is great if you do get a positive pee test.
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  • ::headdesk::Dani, where's the clock??? OP, it is very normal to have an off cycle from time to time. Take a HPT. We can't tell you if you're pregnant.
  • Welcome and best of luck!

    That's all I can handle right now.

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  • imagegymnst1013:
    fvcking hell.  WTF is going on today!!!!

    People got confused between Tues. and Thurs. They both start with T you know.

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    Genetic testing = Balanced translocation
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  • My suggestion: take a pg test.  If you are in fact two days late, it is not too early to test.
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  • You've been trying for a year with just "tracking" and your period has never been "late" before?  Wow you are lucky, I'd have lost my mind if I went a whole year without true charting.  My cycles range from 30-55 days and I've never once been late, but I'd never know that without my chart.


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  • Please please please take DaniLovesPink's advice if it turns out you are not pregnant.  Please.

    If it turns out you are, please head on over to 1st tri.  It would be best.

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  • imagemrs.gardner:
    Go pee on an hpt.

    this. If you're "late" (which you actually don't know unless you know when you ovulated) than it's not too soon to take a test. Good luck.

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    Just another day in the neighborhood...

    Yes it is...

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    Aaaaaandddd...boom goes the dynamite.

    Ugh, you again? FML

    Since you are here and CarBuck isn't, does that mean she got banned? That would make my day.

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    Genetic testing = Balanced translocation
    IVF #1 with PGD Nov 2014 = BFN
    IVF #2 with PGD Start stimming 1/6, ER scheduled 1/16, ET scheduled 1/21 


  • Wow.

     and I second the :::headdesk:::




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  • imageMysh:
    image**Papps**:

    imageWhatUpWithThat?:
    Aaaaaandddd...boom goes the dynamite.

    Ugh, you again? FML

    Since you are here and CarBuck isn't, does that mean she got banned? That would make my day.

    YES!  She is banned

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    Probably only temporarily though.  Boo
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    imageMysh:
    image**Papps**:

    imageWhatUpWithThat?:
    Aaaaaandddd...boom goes the dynamite.

    Ugh, you again? FML

    Since you are here and CarBuck isn't, does that mean she got banned? That would make my day.

    YES!  She is banned

    Deactivated User Account

    The user you have selected to view or contact has been deactivated by the site administrator
     
    Probably only temporarily though.  Boo

    There is justice in the world, even if it is temporary.

    Married 06/08 started TTC 08/08
    BFP 9/08 Natural m/c (8w3d) 
    BFP 06/09 Natural m.c (5w3d) 
    BFP 9/09 -- Dec. 29th: Juliet Rose born at 20 wks. Love you forever.
    TTC Break 1/10-8/14.
    Results of physical testing = Normal 
    Genetic testing = Balanced translocation
    IVF #1 with PGD Nov 2014 = BFN
    IVF #2 with PGD Start stimming 1/6, ER scheduled 1/16, ET scheduled 1/21 


  • Run to the $$ store and grab a test.
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  • Good lord, this place can be dystopian.
  • I ovulated from the 12th -15th this month... Yes I've been keeping a calendar of when I get my period. I don't know what "head desk" means... Im guessing slamming head on desk, sorry if I posted on the wrong board, I wasnt trying to make people upset. Thanks anyway 

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  • imageMysh:
    imagegymnst1013:
    imageMysh:
    image**Papps**:

    imageWhatUpWithThat?:
    Aaaaaandddd...boom goes the dynamite.

    Ugh, you again? FML

    Since you are here and CarBuck isn't, does that mean she got banned? That would make my day.

    YES!  She is banned

    Deactivated User Account

    The user you have selected to view or contact has been deactivated by the site administrator
     
    Probably only temporarily though.  Boo

    There is justice in the world, even if it is temporary.

    I've been away on a business trip, I missed this!  What did Carbuck do??

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    I ovulated from the 12th -15th this month... Yes I've been keeping a calendar of when I get my period. I don't know what "head desk" means... Im guessing slamming head on desk, sorry if I posted on the wrong board, I wasnt trying to make people upset. Thanks anyway 

    You only ovulate on one day of your cycle, not 4.  If you are using an ovulation calendar, you should know that they are useless.  They are based on a 28 day cycle with day 14 ovulation.  You may very well be ovulating well outside the time frame they give you.  Scroll back to Dani's (I think) response and read the link she gave you - it has a lot of helpful information so you can learn more about your cycle.

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    imageWhatUpWithThat?:
    Good lord, this place can be dystopian.

     I beg to differ. I don't think we're like that at all!

    I don't either.  I see no misery in this post - only suggestions that OP take a test and learn more about how her cycle works.  Sounds pretty helpful and positive to me.

    Edit to say mostly helpful.

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  • imagemchupie:

    I've been away on a business trip, I missed this!  What did Carbuck do??

    She came back, that was the biggest offense. Dani posted a 'nugget' that kind of out of control and at the tail end, CarBuck arrived being her pleasant self. Then she started another thread soon after directed at Mixie. This AE is most likely her as well.

    Married 06/08 started TTC 08/08
    BFP 9/08 Natural m/c (8w3d) 
    BFP 06/09 Natural m.c (5w3d) 
    BFP 9/09 -- Dec. 29th: Juliet Rose born at 20 wks. Love you forever.
    TTC Break 1/10-8/14.
    Results of physical testing = Normal 
    Genetic testing = Balanced translocation
    IVF #1 with PGD Nov 2014 = BFN
    IVF #2 with PGD Start stimming 1/6, ER scheduled 1/16, ET scheduled 1/21 


  • Please...for our sanity...just go test and if it's negative we'll fill you in on some things to keep in mind while trying to get pregnant. 

    Good luck

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  • I am so ashamed to admit I see her post on my home board on TK. Luckily I rarely post there though. So sad...so sad.
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  • Rhonie me too...::hangs head in sham::
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  • 2 days AFTER you expect AF is NOT too soon to test. Take a HPT and then please bugger off to the first tri boards.
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