"Try not to think about it"

Re: "Try not to think about it"

• Blasianlove member

  January 2010

  Pretty much everyone here has that same gripe.

  TTC #2 since Sept '16
  My Chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/28017b
  TTC #1- 3 failed rounds of Clomid/ Surprise Natural BFP w/weight loss- 9/22/11 DD 5/12
  DX. Dec '09 w/ Inappropriate LH Secretion Syndrom/PCOS/ Anov 28 months
  (Former username: xxbblueangelxx)

  Report0 Reply
• Loading the player...
• Mrs.Umm member

  January 2010

  Yup.

  Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

  Report0 Reply
• Blueyezz0530

  January 2010

  I tell them to shuve it

  Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

  Report0 Reply
• Estellankase member

  January 2010

  Yes it's very common.  I love the, "when you stop trying it will just happen." or the, "if you stress out it will never happen." 

  Gee thanks LOL 

  Report0 Reply
• DaniLovesPink member

  January 2010

  Yep.  I usually have to resist the urge to resort to physical violence.
  

  Report0 Reply
• sandhyajp

  January 2010

  Yup, so annoying

  Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

  Report0 Reply
• PinkLove-S

  January 2010

  This is precisely why no one knows we are TTC. I might bite somebody's head off after hearing that a million times. 

  Keeping my fingers crossed for my BFP Buddy STL34!!!

  Report0 Reply
• Jewlz018 member

  January 2010

  xxbblueangelxx:

  Pretty much everyone here has that same gripe.

  

  Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

  Report0 Reply
• New_MrsP member

  January 2010

  Drives me crazy. This cycle we took baby-making more seriously than any other cycle (charting, opks, etc.), and it actually worked. Must be a fluke.

  

  Report0 Reply
• LnR70707 member

  January 2010

  That would be why I don't talk about it IRL.

  
  
  2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
  TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
  Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
  
  I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

  Report0 Reply
• brits4 member

  January 2010

  Yes! 
  

  Report0 Reply
• NolaWalt member

  January 2010

  PinkLove-S:

  This is precisely why no one knows we are TTC. I might bite somebody's head off after hearing that a million times. 

  I agree! I am far to mentally unstable to handle that with any grace!

  Report0 Reply
• gossler54

  January 2010

  Yeah or it will happen you just be patient

  Report0 Reply
• little_stars

  January 2010

  PinkLove-S:

  This is precisely why no one knows we are TTC. I might bite somebody's head off after hearing that a million times. 

  This. Even though we haven't told anyone, because of the timing in our lives/marriage people are assuming now is the time. I've also gotten, "maybe if you just try to think you don't want it to happen, it will." Augh!!!

  Report0 Reply
• JennyAnne022776 member

  January 2010

  fmgrice:

  Venting a little here..

  Anyone else get really annoyed when talking about TTC with someone and they just say "try not to think about it"? Seriously?! How can you not think about it, especially after you tell me not to? 

  Yes.  This is why I don't talk with people about it, unless it's my family (who would never, ever make a comment like that) or my teaching partner.  He just looks at me sympathetically and doesn't know what to say, except for "do what you need to take care of yourself."

  Have I mentioned lately how much I love my family and how grateful I am for my friends?
  

  

  Report0 Reply