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trying for 3.5 years and no luck. ALL ADVICE WELCOME!!! Please
Hi all. My name is Tina. I am 22 years old and my husband and I have been ttc for 3.5 years now with no luck. Have been checked to make sure all was fine to get preggo...and still nothing. We have tried LITERALLY everything. Every position every day every other day every third day, with a pillow, without, not going to the bathroom for 10-30 min afterwords, chlomid and still nothing. I mean...really were running out of idea's. Someone please help me out with some useful advice. I have visited every website about ttc, help ttc, tttc, and everything in between. We really want to be blessed with a beautiful little one. Thanks for the advice 
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Re: trying for 3.5 years and no luck. ALL ADVICE WELCOME!!! Please
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There may also be a possibility your husband's count may be normal, but they may be too weak. I have a friend who cannot get pregnant because of this situation, and another couple friend who's husband's sperm swam in the wrong direction. The couple who's swam in the wrong direction resulted in them having to go through multiple rounds of invitro, and the other couples outlook is leaning towards that option as well.
Tina,
You have received some very good information from many of the young ladies above who are trying to help ? so here is just one more opinion for you to ponder.
You stated that you are ovulating which means you probably don?t need clomid so I must agree with ?NurseMommy458" on this one. She also mentioned if your DH is the problem then I say he?s the one who needs some help first.
If both of you however, have been given the battery of test and were found to be able to conceive then you should be having no problem(s). Then just read my private posting to you. You might wish to get this information ? just for your own use.
Now you two have fun ? good luck in obtaining the pregnancy you want.
Emily
we had regular insurance a while back and went to a general doctor and asked about the pregnancy issu. i have went to this obgyn for one visit where my bff had went and did some info as well. That is as far as the clomid. I had been given the clomid even though I am ovulating, which I too did not quite understand. I thought that was only for if you are NOT ovulating. But they said it would help to increase the chances. I took it for 6 mo/ and th side effects were absolutely horrible. Worst pains I have ever felt. I had heard about the 1st sperm issue but never about swimming the wrong way. Hmm. Yeah I am very anxiously awaiting the insurance to kick in again. Is there anything specific I should be asking when I go to the dr? I am kind of embarassed to talk about it when I go..I don't know if I am asking the right questions.
Again, thank you all for the advice.
Here is some information about the private message link ? on the left side of the bump web page there are links to a multitude of information links: finding one called community then under that all boards (with many links) then my blog; here is the one you want because under this one you?ll fine the one called see my blog link ? click on that one; it takes you to the listing then just scroll down your list of postings until you find one of the postings you have made for one which contains comments ? click on that link and read the comments you have received from someone ? I hope this helps you to retrieve your personal messages that someone has sent you. Emily
thank you so much. A sperm analysis sounds like a good idea. We need to find out what's going on here. We really want to be parents and it's just so frustrating having to be let down every month. ya know? thanks for the advice.
And Emily...thank you so much. I figured it out.