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Who do you have the strongest bond with?

MZANSMZANS
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I think for me it's my mom, then my Sister, then my DH

I do think if we have a kid, my DH will be #1.  I always think once we are parents, we will have more of a "family bond." 

Don't get me wrong, we are very close.  Something feels like it's missing. 

 

Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie First Birthday tickers So far we've done: Clomid Challenge/HSG/SA 1 Unmedicated IUI 2 Clomid IUIs 2 Femara IUIs 1 injectable IUI -2nd Femara IUI resulted in a CP (Beta was 16) -Another CP in May. (Beta 19 Prog 13) -Ectopic Pg - (Beta 27, 67, 430, 850) - methotrexate shot & biopsy -Forced 3 month Break 1/4/10 - Uterine septum removed by Hysteroscopy 1/18/10 - Told I have inflammation in uterus. 6 weeks of antibiotics. 2/27/10 - Another confirmed ectopic. 2 shots of methotrexate after an ER visit. Currently doing acupuncture and trying to lose weight. TTC since 3/07 -
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  • ccbananaccbanana member
    My DH first, then my parents, then my grandma. 
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  • madelyn07madelyn07 member

    My DH. No questions asked...I'm not really overly close with my dad, brothers, ect.

     

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  • jehnmjehnm
    I would say it's a tough question.   I feel a different bond with DH than I do with my mom and they are each the strongest in their own way.  
    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member

    DH, my Gram, my parents ,my sisters

     

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  • njdcgirlnjdcgirl member

    For me - DH.  Then mom, brothers, then dad.

    I do feel like DH and I are a family - but an incomplete one at this point.

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  • LifeInANutshellLifeInANutshell member
    DH then Mom.... then everyone else...
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  • Temp590840000005378Temp590840000005378
    Mzans, don't feel bad... LOL!  I'm the same, my Mom than DH.  I know that is probably backwards but I can't help it :)
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  • ChiTown BridgetChiTown Bridget member
    DH without a doubt.
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  • MZANSMZANS
    Thanks for saying that bear.  I can't help it either. It's always been like that and I really can't see it ever changing.  I was starting to think there is something wrong with me LOL
    Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie First Birthday tickers So far we've done: Clomid Challenge/HSG/SA 1 Unmedicated IUI 2 Clomid IUIs 2 Femara IUIs 1 injectable IUI -2nd Femara IUI resulted in a CP (Beta was 16) -Another CP in May. (Beta 19 Prog 13) -Ectopic Pg - (Beta 27, 67, 430, 850) - methotrexate shot & biopsy -Forced 3 month Break 1/4/10 - Uterine septum removed by Hysteroscopy 1/18/10 - Told I have inflammation in uterus. 6 weeks of antibiotics. 2/27/10 - Another confirmed ectopic. 2 shots of methotrexate after an ER visit. Currently doing acupuncture and trying to lose weight. TTC since 3/07 -
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  • newsbabynewsbaby
    DH, then sister, then mom, then dad
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • j11skatej11skate
    DH first, then mom, then grandma (who has passed on)
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  • SASSI712SASSI712

    Well...different ppl different bonds..I would Say DS first then DH and Dad tied for 2nd and then my brother...(my mom passed). 

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  • cara-n-stevecara-n-steve member

    I would say DH, Sister and Mom

     I have a really strong bond with all of them and I don't think I could put them in any order!

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  • nikinikininenikinikinine member

    DH, then a tie between my sister and my mom, then my bestie and then my cousin.

    I have a great support network, but DH is my "family". 

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