Hi all,
I only made it 2 wks bf-ing / pumping with DS, and I hope to do at least the same for the next 2 LO's. Please share your (real-life) schedules for mixing BF with formula feedings - esp if you are EP or doing all 3 - BF, pump, formula.
Part of the problem with DS was my flat nipples, trouble latching, and his voracious appetite that completely drained me. I refuse to use nipple shields again, so if LO's don't latch, I will probably EP and supplement. If they do, I will try a combo of the 3 or just BF and formula.
DH and I are considering a split-shift feeding once we are sure we can feed both babies alone. DH will do the 1st shift (until 1 am) and I will try to sleep from about 9-1 or 2.
Re: BF, pumping, and supplementing
I pumped for 3 months; initially I had to use formula and then transitioned to breastmilk as my supply increased. They eventually had 5/7 feedings via breastmilk, and the other 2 were formula, which I gave as the last 2 feedings of the night, given the theory that formula holds them longer during the night.
I will tell you this much; if you plan on pumping and already have a toddler (not sure how old your DS is) you will need help to make it happen. It takes a lot of time to build and maintain your supply, time taken from your firstborn. I hated pumping personally, so I went easier on myself this time around and pumped as much as I possibly could, but not as long or routinely as I had done for my firstborn ( I EP'd with her for 6 months)
Good luck!!!!....by the way, I used to live in PHilly (Manayunk).