I go back to work on Tuesday for the first time since LO was born. I know it's going to be hard...how hard was it for you? I teach, so at least I know that I have the summer with her and thats what will get me through (and Spring break), but I hate the idea of not being with her all day! She just started smiling a lot today and really seems to be getting a real little personality...just when I have to go back to work!! Will she remember me when I get home from my 8 hour days? Will she still smile at me and turn when she hears my voice?
Re: How hard was it for you?
The worst part is the first few hours. I couldn't stop crying the whole way to work, and kept getting teary eyed at my desk. It gets better as the day goes on.
I was so scared DS wouldn't remember me either, but he still smiles when I talk to him, and loves to be held when I come home.
It's hard, but you'll make it!! Good luck!
The anticipation was a lot worse than the reality (this will be my third week back). Honestly, I was starting to get a little antsy at home and it's been nice to be around other grown-ups. I think I appreciate him more at the end of the day now, and yes, he still smiles at me all the time.
I grew up with a single mom that worked full-time, so I was at the sitter's from the time I was 6 weeks old. I spent a lot of time with my sitter and loved her, but she was never my mom. No one will ever replace you.