My OB wants Silas to come by 39 weeks because of size issues but so far I have had no dilation or progress. Is it totally crazy that if I don't have any dilation by 39 weeks I might talk to my OB about just going straight for a c-section? I guess I don't see the reason to go through twice the pain and attempt a vaginal delivery only to fail and end up with a c-section.
Re: Induction VS C-section
I am sort of facing a similar situation.. if they decide to induce me early, I wish they'd just give me a C-Section and get it over with, because I feel like I could handle a planned c-section much more than an emergency.
Weird, right? I dunno.
I had a wonderful c-section experience, but definitely go for the induction first. I was in labor for 12hrs before they decided to do the c-section. It sucked horribly (no pain meds), but I wouldn't change how I did it.
I still am sad I didn't get the vaginal birth I wanted, but am happy he's healthy.
FWIW, I have had two induction. Both at 38 weeks due to high blood pressure. I was not dilated/effaced or anything when I went in for either of them. I never had any problems with the inductions. I had two normal vaginal deliveries that were the normal length of time (13 hours for DD#1 and 8 hrs for DD#2). How far along you are when you go in doesn't really matter.
Good luck either way though.
haha...I was just thinking this when they cancelled my c-section on Friday (due to her turning back to head down).
My doctor said that if I haven't had her by 40 weeks, that she will induce on the 4th of February.
If the induction doesn't work, and they have to do a c-section anyways, I'm gonna be upset, because we could have just done it yesterday. It just all sucks.
Good to know! My sister has been induced with all 3 of her kids but she was like 3cms dilated with all of them.
I wondered and even asked down below.
Crazy!
With Nate I didn't efface/dilate at all until 39 weeks. So, there's still time!
I agree with PP, though: talk to your doc.
I don't know if you plan on having more kids or not, but it's difficult (at least in my area) to find an OB willing to do a VBAC.
You'll have to weigh the pros and cons of recovery time, too.
In the end, it's up to you and your doc. But it doesn't make you a bad person if you choose a c-section.
I guess it sounds lazy but I figure my chances of a c-section are already kind of high considering my whole issue is size add no dilation or effacement and I am just thinking what if I go through 30some odd hours of painful awful labor just to end up with a c-section?! NO way!
lol, are you going epi-free if you don't get a c-section?
Obviously do whatever is best for you and LO. But I had a horrible recovery from my c-section and I wish I could have had or at least tried to have a vaginal. LO was breech, so it was not an option. My water broke and I went into labor and had a c-section a few hours later.
Personally, I felt like I missed out, I barely get to see LO at birth, they whisk her off and u get stitched for 45 minutes, then I was shaking so bad after, had to wait to hold her. Had BF problems which I think were related to my difficult recovery. Also had leaking fluid from my incision and was in so much pain. Its major surgery and many people have no problems, just understand that there are complications from c-sections and for some, a feeling of loss from the experience. Even though I am grateful for my healthy baby and know thats what is important, I still feel sad that I couldnt have a vaginal and LO is 4 months. Good Luck
I went straight for a c/s when I had no progress at 39 weeks. I had zero interest in trying an induction that was nearly guaranteed to fail.
I loved my c/s, I gladly signed up for another this time.
(read it. you know you want to.)
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mpo: i would want to try for progress first and see if a vaginal delivery is possible.
my friend just had a 10lb 4oz baby vaginally! how big do they think silas will be when they induce? closer to 9??
They can give you cervadil to soften your cervix or they can do a foley bulb catheter to help dilate. They usually can start that the night before and in the AM start pitocin.
You should ask your doc what the stats look like. How often is it that an induction fails?
Also, the doc is basing the plan on the size of the baby which is determined by ultrasound - a notoriously unreliable measure. I'd wait it out. You may progress naturally, and I'd like to point out many women have given birth to 9 and 10 pound babies without any major issues. My cousin recently gave birth naturally (ie no meds) to a 10lb 5oz baby. It wasn't a good time but it was totally fine.
I don't think anyone is saying C Section recovery is easy. But OP is looking to avoid a C Section recovery coupled with a labor recovery.
I told my doctor as soon as she thought there was less than a 50% chance of me delivering vaginally - I wanted a C-Section, My obs office is used to VBACs and women determined to delivery naturally and drug free - I just wanted to make sure they knew - that was not me.
She laughed at me and said it was good I was open to all options. Ultimately, I think they'll let me labor and push for DAYS until there's a medical reason to forgo vaginal delivery.
I am in the same boat as you. I've opted for the c-section. They are going to take him at 38 weeks due to me being diabetic. I think that you should go with what your gut is telling you to do, talking to your Dr. might help you make a decision. GL!!!