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FFFC

Come on girls!  Confession is good for the soul.  Get it out!!

Here is one of mine:

Because its winter and I don't have a man in my life, I don't shave my legs very often, maybe once a week.  If I had a date or an SO, I would make sure everything was trim and shaved.  Bc its just me, I don't care.  Oh and I wear granny panties bc they help hide the baby weight I am trying to get rid of. Geeked

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  • Hmm.. I'm right with you. I haven't shaved my legs in a week and my other spot has been growing for about 7 weeks now. LOL! I know, I know... but it's not like anyone is lookin. I might shave for my next appointment though. I'd be mortified if anybody saw me like this, even my OB-GYN.

    My confession... I destroyed my room with the intent of cleaning it out to make room for baby and just to baby proof in general. I stopped to go to church last Sunday and my things are still layed out on the floor in piles labeled keep and throw. I still haven't thrown the old stuff out and put the "keep" items back in place because I have simply been too tired. Damn first trimester. I heard I get my energy back in about 2 weeks, so maybe I'll actually finish all the projects that I start. LOL

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  • I never have anything good!! I am really excited but still kinda scared that I might be divorced in 2 months. It makes everything so final. I wonder what is going to happen from here. Untreaded waters...

    not much flammable there...

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  • Oooh I have a couple. 

    First: I secretly wonder how happy women really are in their marriages on some of these boards.  In my experience when someone is constantly bragging/gushing about something it is because they are covering something up.

    My other confession is sometimes I fantasize about not having to deal with XH-it's not that I necessarily want something bad to happen to him-but maybe he could disappear for awhile-like go to prison or go missing.....either of which are strong possibilities given his lifestyle choices.

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  • imageachase123:

    maybe he could disappear for awhile-like go to prison or go missing.....either of which are strong possibilities given his lifestyle choices.

    BAHAHA! The things we wish on our ex's. :D

  • imagemeghan_marie:
    imageachase123:

    maybe he could disappear for awhile-like go to prison or go missing.....either of which are strong possibilities given his lifestyle choices.

    BAHAHA! The things we wish on our ex's. :D

    AMEN!

  • imageachase123:

    Oooh I have a couple. 

    First: I secretly wonder how happy women really are in their marriages on some of these boards.  In my experience when someone is constantly bragging/gushing about something it is because they are covering something up.

    My other confession is sometimes I fantasize about not having to deal with XH-it's not that I necessarily want something bad to happen to him-but maybe he could disappear for awhile-like go to prison or go missing.....either of which are strong possibilities given his lifestyle choices.

     A. Alot of women, after hearing my story tell me how hard having a child is and the toll it takes on a marraige... Some I never would have guessed.

    B. I sooo fantasize aobut my ex just not existing... however that may happen! Its awful but i feel like i would feel so much better if he just were not on this planet. Too bad i need him around for the child support.

  • So.. On the count of 3 lets all put on our ruby slippers and click our heels together and say "I wish you didn't exist". Maybe if we all do it together they will magically disappear off the face of this Earth.

    Ready? 1...2...3...

    Did it work?? Damn.

  • imageachase123:

    Oooh I have a couple. 

    First: I secretly wonder how happy women really are in their marriages on some of these boards.  In my experience when someone is constantly bragging/gushing about something it is because they are covering something up.

    My other confession is sometimes I fantasize about not having to deal with XH-it's not that I necessarily want something bad to happen to him-but maybe he could disappear for awhile-like go to prison or go missing.....either of which are strong possibilities given his lifestyle choices.

     

    I completly agree with both of these!!

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  • I totally understand why a spouse will put a hit out on their SO.  I would never do it, but I TOTALLY get it.

     Had a super emotionally draining day in court.  judge decided that stbxh is a moron who couldn't figure out what a "no contact" order was.  I'm pretty sure it means no contact. . .He is going back to jail till his trial on march 8, no chance to bond out.  and I've been recieveing shiity emails on facebook from his sister about it...I blocked her.  I didn't force him to rape someone and I didn't force him to continue to make contact with me all weekend long.  I'm not being vindictive but if I hadn't told the prosecution, he would have kept making contact in one way or another and I asked him to stop 4 times.  I didn't ask for him to go back to jail, I just wanted him to leave me alone...

  • I also think my life would be easier if he was just hit by a bus.
  • imagelnbohac:

    I totally understand why a spouse will put a hit out on their SO.  I would never do it, but I TOTALLY get it.

     Had a super emotionally draining day in court.  judge decided that stbxh is a moron who couldn't figure out what a "no contact" order was.  I'm pretty sure it means no contact. . .He is going back to jail till his trial on march 8, no chance to bond out.  and I've been recieveing shiity emails on facebook from his sister about it...I blocked her.  I didn't force him to rape someone and I didn't force him to continue to make contact with me all weekend long.  I'm not being vindictive but if I hadn't told the prosecution, he would have kept making contact in one way or another and I asked him to stop 4 times.  I didn't ask for him to go back to jail, I just wanted him to leave me alone...

    Sorry to hear about the sister but you did the right thing!  Too bad his lame a$$ family makes excuses for his poor choices!  I think a lot of the reason that these "men" have become the way they are is because ppl are constantly enabling them and making excuses for their actions-they need to STOP!  But, not gonna lie, I am pretty jealous that he is in jail, which equals less stress for you and LO!

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  • This is my first weekend w/out the baby since Christmas. I had all these fantastic plans to go out and do things and even had a date lined up for tomorrow night.

    1. Both my plan A and plan B for tonight have been cancelled.

    2. I haven't heard from my potential "date" since Tuesday night.

    I'm so sad and disappointed that I'm thinking of going out and buying a bottle of wine and a fruit tart and drowning my sorrows. Crying

  • Some days I question if I can really handle being a single mom.

    H has only been gone 7 weeks, and since I lost my job Christmas Eve, I have not had longer then a 30 minute break unless we are both in bed asleep.

    I just need some me time, and that makes me feel horrible!!

    Though, I know that once we go to court and h starts getting her for 6 hours every other sunday, I will want her home, the second shes gone. :(

  • Confession time?

     I sit online WAY too much when I should be doing things around the house.

    I'll join you all in the "I wish he'd just disappear" club...but it's more for my ex-BF than the sperm donor lol

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