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How did you tell work?

 I'm planning on telling my bosses next week after my appointment.  I've only been here 4 weeks, and telling people I barely know makes me nervous.  How did you let your bosses know?

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Re: How did you tell work?

  • I just came back in from my appointment and told the coworkers that I am around everyday.  Before I had a chance to tell my supervisor, a loudmouth told her for me.
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  • I told work pretty early -  about 8 weeks - for the simple fact that pregnancy is a protected disability.  We are reducing our workforce in some areas, and I wanted to make sure I was as "protected" as possible.  I realize if they were going to lay me off anyway me being pregnant wouldn't stop them - but it sure wouldn't look great in court to lay off the newly pregnant woman right before you move to self-insured!

    Anyway!  All that to say: We came in 2nd place in the Birmingham Business Journal Top 10 Places to Work so we threw a party for our Birmingham office.  As we were setting up (I work in HR, so of course, it was us throwing the party!) I told my department that I had a present for us "winning", but it wouldn't be delivered until next May -  and then showed them the ultrasound.  Everybody was super excited and started screaming, jumping, and hugging me.  Probably not the most professional way to do it - but my department is really close, so it works.

  • I pulled my immediate editor aside when I first found out I was pregnant because I wanted someone to know what was going on. I was already getting pretty bad morning sickness at that point and she would have guessed anyways, I think.

    She kept it a secret in the office though and I told our executive editor and everyone else around 12 weeks.

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  • I had to tell my boss just after I was 6 weeks b/c my morning (all-day) sickness kicked in. I had really rough mornings with nausea and would run late, so I wanted him to know there was a valid reason for that.  I told my close friend at work not long after finding out.  Then the rest of my team (there are 8 of us) around my 13 weeks mark.  I work with mostly men and a few of them had an idea due to my hunger rampages at lunchtime once my Zofran kicked in. 
  • As I started having more drs appts (around 12 wks I believe) I had to tell my manager b/c I think he was suspicious.  I did NOT have a good relationship with him so it was awkward.
  • I told my principal and my para educators pretty early on so they would know what was going on with me...the rest of the faculty figured it out as I got bigger...I never made a formal announcement.
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